Chatting is the basis for the development of a relationship between two people. When chatting with a girl you like, if you want to make her feel good, the important thing is not the number of chats, but how to "attack the heart" and how to use some skills. Let me share with you some tips on chatting with girls.
How to chat with girls?
1. Taking care
The act of quickly bringing two people closer is to talk about their feelings with each other. Or personal matters, chatting about small things in each other’s lives and family.
To understand the principle of inviting others to talk, you must first expose your emotionally fragile side, which can arouse her sympathy, and then she will also recall her past events and talk to you.
Of course, the deepest secrets in the heart cannot be asked, but some emotional issues that she can talk about and want to find someone to talk to can be discussed, which can best arouse emotional resonance.
What can arouse a girl's affection must be someone who has emotional resonance with her, that is, the magnetic field is the same.
The law of attraction tells us that we can always attract people who have the same energy as ourselves, and the effective way to exchange this energy is to have reasonable and heartfelt chats.
2. Find emotional resonance
If you want to take the relationship further with the other person, then we must Make the chat more in-depth. So one of the ways to make the chat more in-depth is to find the resonance points between each other through chatting. You must know that what a girl wants most is to find someone who understands her and understands her thoughts.
Then if you want to have a good conversation with the other party, you need to talk more about topics related to your interests. Such as music, movies, travel, novels, etc. If you don’t know where to start, you can look through a girl’s previous Moments. Most of the content shared in a girl’s Moments will be related to her hobbies. Because most girls like to discuss and care about themselves, they hope that the topic will be interpreted and centered around herself. Girls psychologically want to be loved and also want to gain attention from the opposite sex. Therefore, the last step is to open up the "emotional resonance" with each other.
3. Learn to praise
Praising others requires a lot of skills. Sometimes you may have good intentions, but the words you say to praise others always sound awkward.
Some people even give compliments, and the compliments coming out of his mouth will make the girl feel embarrassed. This is not deepening the relationship between you, but alienating her unknowingly. Come on.
Always praising girls for being good-looking and beautiful for no reason will have the opposite effect and make girls feel uncomfortable. This is flattering.
What a girl wants to be praised is inadvertent praise for details. She must learn to observe. Today she wore a new hairpin, new clothes, and a new hairstyle. These are all worthy of praise. detail.
A girl is often moved not by a man’s loving gaze, but by feeling that a man truly cares about her.
You can notice her beauty, but you don’t know why she is beautiful. Any words you say are counterproductive.
4. Maintain the self-frame
The girl tests our attention, taking it easy and keeping one emotion A stable man can remain calm despite the collapse of the mountain, which is a fatal attraction for girls! So for the next reply, maintain your own chat posture, have your own chat frame, and deal with it calmly and calmly. This strengthened the guidance, posed the question to the girl, and answered us in the affirmative.
