Chatting is a matter between two people. When chatting with a girl, you should not only take into account your own feelings, but also focus on the other person's feelings in order to gain the other person's favor. Therefore, when chatting with girls, you must control the rhythm of chatting correctly. How often should you chat with girls?
First of all, you must know that based on how girls feel about you, when they chat with you, their Feedback is different, and the strategies we choose for different feedback must also be different.
How often is a good time to chat with a girl?
1. Good feedback
If this girl will take the initiative to say hello and take the initiative to find topics, then It means that both of you have a relatively large love window at the moment. You can talk more at this time. It doesn’t matter how many times a day you talk. The main thing is to strike while the iron is hot to upgrade your relationship, because when we first added a girl, at the same time, other people It is also possible that you have added this girl. If you do not upgrade the relationship reasonably at this time, then this girl will most likely be taken away by others. This is why you will find that the conversation was fine before, but the other party suddenly Aloof.
2. Ordinary feedback
Girls will pick up your words and have a normal interaction. Generally speaking, you should keep a certain sense of mystery in this situation. Don't keep chatting and talk about everything, because if you do this, girls will quickly lose interest in you.
Of course, the more important thing is that you must learn to quickly determine the core needs of girls, and then embed your own value points in the chat content to achieve the effect of attracting girls. If you can't attract her quickly at this time, but choose to chat with girls in a casual way, then the girl's curiosity towards you will quickly disappear.
3. Bad feedback
It means that when you send a message, the other party just doesn’t reply. This kind of girl usually They are fishing or selling things, which means they may not be dating you for the purpose of dating, so this kind of girl suggests that you don’t need to chat too much, just chat occasionally, because no matter how many messages you send, the other party will still be there. The response will be very cold, which is boring. As a boy, you should have an attitude and don't blindly do things that are hot on the face and cold on the butt.
