Let me ask you a question: Do you have a girl you like? She must be good-looking! Many people will definitely think this is nonsense, right? Who doesn’t like good-looking girls? But I discovered a very strange problem. Many good-looking girls are actually not pursued at all. Do you know why this is?
Why is it that no one pursues good-looking girls?
There is a girl like this next to me. She is good-looking and a bit aloof at ordinary times, but she has no romantic partners and no one seems to pursue her. Why?
1. The availability of good-looking girls is low
In fact, there are some good-looking girls Many people like it, but many people just want to chase it, ready to make a move but dare not move. After all, girls are as beautiful as gods, which of course makes them elusive and out of reach. Then, low self-esteem and hesitation will arise spontaneously, just like in front of the screen. Of you, right? Because other people also know that many people like this girl, they hesitate, compare their own conditions, and then consider that their conditions may not be that good, and they are not very handsome. Why would a girl with good looks choose me? Woolen cloth? So I thought that the availability of this girl was too low, and there might not be any results if I tried hard, so I just let it go. At this time, reason defeated the sensibility, and then I instinctively restrained myself, and then gave up. It was really uncomfortable.
In this way, many girls who you think are ordinary will actually have more people chasing them, because everyone will think that such ordinary girls are more available and they will not be unworthy of them. Even if you can't catch up and fail, you won't be too nostalgic, and you won't find it, so it seems that ordinary girls are more likely to be pursued by boys, and everyone chases after them one after another.
2. Differences in aesthetics between men and women
On the other hand, there are differences in aesthetics between men and women. Sometimes it is possible You think this girl is good-looking, but in the eyes of boys she may seem average. The most important point is that girls often not only look at your conditions, but also your personality and character. There are also girls who are very spiritual even without makeup. In a boy's mind, he is the right person. Then he may want to find a girl who is five points, and then wait for them to put on makeup. Maybe in his mind, he is the right person. Seven points.
And everyone has noticed the more popular comparison photos before, right? After almost going through the baptism of college, everyone has undergone transformation. Many people who once studied hard and were inconspicuous seem to have become very dazzling after working. Even the ugly boy who was the worst at studying may be doing it now. You may not be satisfied with your job, so you want to gain something in love, right? It’s normal.
So if boys meet a good-looking girl, they willWan Bei retreated before she even started chasing her. You didn't chase her, and you didn't know if there were many people chasing her. Why don't you try hard and give her a try?
