The crew industry makes money, but it is generally difficult to find a girlfriend, so it seems meaningless to make more money. So do you know why the crew can't find girlfriends? In addition to being constantly on the boat and having no time, there are actually more reasons.
Why can’t crew members find girlfriends?
1. The circle of crew members is small and it is difficult to get in touch with girls
I have come into contact with some crew members, and it is indeed difficult to get in touch with them in this industry. When it comes to girls, because the circle is too small, they are basically on boats, going to sea, etc., and I can’t see many girls all year round. But it doesn’t mean that crew members will definitely not be able to find a partner. As far as I know, there are still many crew members who have partners and some are even married. But if the crew wants to find a girlfriend, they must first get to know more girls. Various channels can be used. Only by contacting girls can they have the opportunity to develop into girlfriends or wives.
2. Crew members have no time to fall in love
The crew industry is really profitable, but this industry is not The good thing is that you are often at sea and don't have to worry about home. Even if your family introduces you to a blind date girl, you may not have time to go back and meet her. Even if you take advantage of the vacation to meet a girl and get in touch with her, it's good. After the vacation is over, you will immediately have to rush back to the ship to continue working. The relationship is not very deep to begin with. Once you leave, it may last for ten days and a half or even a few months or half a year. So how can you develop a relationship with a girl? In the end, it will naturally end in vain. I know that many crew members, even if they have girlfriends or families, will still have problems because they spend less time together and stay away more. Therefore, most Chinese seafarers will find a job on land after a long time, which is also a last resort.
3. The crew has a bad image when exposed to the sun and rain
The work of the crew is actually quite hard. Being constantly exposed to the sun and rain, the originally handsome young man turned into a dark and skinny young man after boarding the boat. Many girls shook their heads at the first sight. After all, girls are more image-conscious, and you look like a migrant worker. Who would want to fall in love with you? Therefore, crew members still have to pay attention to their own image at ordinary times, and they must also pay attention to protection on board. Don't make yourself look very old and vicissitudes of life, otherwise girls will like you. (If you try to impress girls with high wages, then you can only attract money-worshiping girls. It is recommended to be cautious)
Summary: The crew member cannot find a boyfriend. He does have a certain relationship with his career, and he has no companionship. Or having less company is definitely not a plus. Don’t worry about finding a partner if you are single. There is always someone who suits you. Take some time to go on a blind date or fall in love.
