Mature and steady boys are indeed very attractive to girls. No girl would dislike a steady and reliable boy. So how to become a steady boy?
What kind of steady boy do girls like?
1. Don’t always compare yourself with others
Every girl’s personality and temper are different.
When you see someone getting together as soon as they confess their feelings, it may be that they already like each other and fell in love at first sight. Or this boy may not have paid less than you behind the scenes, but you just didn't see it.
Then if you feel unbalanced in your mind, you will be defeated in your actions. Regardless of whether this girl has developed a good impression of you or not, your behavior has already made her feel unreliable.
So since we like her, just get along well with the girl you like. If we can, let's pursue. If we can't, we'll retreat.
2. Don’t use your energy blindly
Just like there was a very popular saying on the Internet many years ago: I like apples, but you gave me a cart full of pears. What you like may not be liked by girls.
So, if you use your energy in the right way, chasing a girl is at least half the battle. The girl will think that you understand her, are reliable, and attentive, but if you use it wrongly, you will be in the girl’s place. Can the impression score be high?
3. Don’t be tactful when you should be direct
In fact, you are just like a girl giving you the same hints, and no one is the same. There are roundworms in it, and sometimes you can’t get the hints a girl gives you.
So maybe she has a crush on you, but because she didn’t understand your hint, she didn’t give you the response you expected. This gave you the wrong impression - she seemed to be interested in me. Not interested.
So, let’s be more proactive when pursuing girls, but sometimes we have to be more direct. When we want to ask someone out, should we go to the movies tonight? Let’s go to the movies tonight instead.
Otherwise, if you give hints and hints, it will not only be useless, but your mentality will collapse and you will lose points.
4. Don’t make trouble if you are rejected
Girls reject us for two reasons. The first is that you don’t really want to refuse, which tests whether you are sincere, and the second is that you are sincerely rejecting.
Then if it’s the first type, let’s keep up the good work. After all, we chose the person ourselves. Let’s be more pretentious. It’s better to spend more time and more effort. At this time, we have to be patient. Sooner or later you can catch up.
If it’s the second type, you’ll probably figure it out after trying two or three times. In fact, just think about it. After all, love is a matter between two people.Son.
Then everyone said, if you choose to be awkward at this time, will it be useful? Some guys, after being rejected, will be bombarded with WeChat calls. Isn’t this just waiting for others to block you?
If a girl has a crush on you, she will make you proud.
So making trouble is just a child's behavior. As long as you do it once and become mature and steady, it will have nothing to do with you.
