Now is an era where there are more men than women, and some boys still have some problems, which makes it more difficult to get out of singles and find a girlfriend. Next, let’s take a look at three common problems among boys who can’t find girlfriends.
1. If you don’t pay attention to your image, you will not be attractive to girls
In this era, It is a world where looks rule the world, because in the current perception of girls, a boy who pays attention to his image represents self-discipline.
And for girls, the first impression is particularly important. If the boy is a boy with a very good image and temperament, girls will be very willing to try to understand each other. This does not mean that girls are beauty-controllers. It's because in the eyes of girls, they feel that such a man can give them face, and can also show from the side how much the other party attaches importance to this date.
But if you are a particularly sloppy boy, the girl may give you a pass the first time they meet, because not only will you make her feel embarrassed, but she will also feel that you are not good at all. Make it a point to date her.
2. Girls are not interested if they can’t speak
Can a boy speak, really? You can decide how often and how long you spend together, because a boy who can talk can create a comfortable and pleasant environment for girls to get along with, so that girls like to get along with boys. But if you are a particularly dull person, or The “straight guy” who doesn’t respond to chats.
It will only make girls feel particularly embarrassed when they get along with you, because girls like someone in the first place because they feel comfortable when they get along.
For example: When you first met, the girl mentioned the boy who could talk when she was woken up by the birds outside in the morning.
You may say: "Then you didn't sleep well. It's my fault too. I should be the first one to teach you to get up, but now you let the bird take the lead. I will do it in the future." The first thing you see is me." People who can't speak may say: "Then you didn't sleep well, you should go to bed early today."
3. Not understanding the sense of ritual makes girls have no expectations
Girls all like romance, and romance is Derived from a sense of ritual. Therefore, boys with a strong sense of ritual will be very popular with girls, while men who are honest and only know how to pay are not good enough, but they are unable to attract girls.
For example: When other boys meet for the first time, they will prepare bouquets of flowers and treat each other to Western food. They will also put on decent clothes, stand next to each other when shopping, and cross the street. Will protect girls,You will impress girls with details and show your attentiveness and thoughtfulness, but you will only pay and send the girl back home after the meal. You don't know how to express yourself at all. Then the other party will naturally not choose you.
Therefore, the reason why you are single is not because other boys are better than you, nor because girls don’t like you, but because the way you attract girls is too mediocre and not attractive at all. The other party will naturally choose other boys. If you can show your charm in the right way, the girl you like will also like you.
