Most girls will directly reject a boy when they don’t like him. However, there are also some girls who clearly don’t like boys. When faced with a boy’s pursuit, they will not choose to refuse, but will hang on to him. If that girl What will happen if you hang on to you?
What will happen if a girl hangs on you:
1. Suddenly Hot or cold, different attitudes
You are sad and need comfort, where is she? Either she has to work overtime or her best friend is broken up, in short, she has no time to accompany you.
Just when you were about to give up on her, she happened to need someone to accompany you.
She knows how to let boys see but not reach. She also knows how to keep a person, not by pushing him away, but by letting him worry about gains and losses.
You think that she is hot and cold towards you just because she thinks too much and needs time. In fact, you have already become a fish in someone else's fish pond.
When she is happy, you are calm; when she is unhappy, you are stormy.
2. Selfishness, emotional kidnapping
She has all the reasons, what I don’t like Guys who are always reasonable and guys who don't pay for girls just don't love them.
On the surface, you may think that this is a cute and coquettish expression, but in fact, it is selfish and "kidnapping" boys with emotions.
You have gone out with others several times. You have arranged everything from movies, milk tea, plays, and barbecues, and you still paid for it.
But she didn’t even buy you a bottle of mineral water. If you said half-jokingly: Oh, why don’t you treat me to a meal too?
People turn around and block you. The reason is that you are too stingy and too fussy.
Everything is so natural and reasonable. It's as if the boy blew up the entire universe in his previous life, and now he's here to atone for his sins.
When you meet such a girl, you will become more and more entangled, because the focus of your life is tilted towards her, and you spend all day thinking about what to do to make the other person happy.
3. Suppress the target and improve yourself
For example, they will say something like this intentionally or unintentionally If you say:
Why are you dressed like this? Change your clothes quickly because they are too ugly
He lets you do so much just because you are easy to bully. Pick on the weak. Persimmon pinch
Do you know why you have been single for so long? Because your emotional intelligence is too low
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In fact, such a girl is imaginaryExtremely proud. People who always like to throw dirty water on others are not confident enough in their hearts. And when she suppresses you like this for a long time, seemingly caring about you, as time goes by, you will become less and less confident.
