Introverted boys usually don’t know how to chat. They usually only talk in a few words when they are with friends. When chatting with girls, they don’t know how to start the conversation. They use all kinds of tricks to tease girls, but in the end they end up being awkward. Chatting, introverted boys always have trouble chatting with girls, so how should they find topics and have a lively chat with girls?
Regarding the problem that chatting cannot continue, many introverted boys Boys have also made some changes, such as plucking up the courage to take the initiative to talk about some things with girls and share their lives, but things are counterproductive and unsatisfactory. In fact, the two sides of things determine that whether the chat can start depends on the cooperation of both parties. Therefore, introverted boys should not put too much pressure on themselves and attribute all the responsibilities to themselves.
Therefore, if you want to find a good topic to chat with a girl, you must not only start from your own will, but also need to grasp the girl's personality, Hobbies and other details. Starting from the common points between the two people to find topics, they can often have a good conversation and laugh. T. S. Eliot once said, "Everything new must be old at the same time." It's not about the number of topics, but how to talk about a topic interestingly through different forms.
Associated topics
For example, the usual chat content between introverted boys and girls is, "Have you eaten? "?" "Eat" "What did you eat?" "Crayfish"... There are many good starting points for topics at this time. Through the food of crayfish, you can think of food, so you can talk about food-related topics. This will also give you an idea of ??what kind of food she likes to eat. You can also think of cooking, so you can talk about cooking and exchange recipes for various dishes. You can also associate it with travel. You can tell about your experience of eating crayfish while traveling somewhere in Chengdu, and associate the topic with travel.
Extended topic
For example, you are discussing a recently released movie, but you quickly discuss this movie After chatting, introverted boys may start to become speechless. In fact, there are many topics to talk about. For example, start with a star of this movie and extend the topic to a star you are familiar with, or change the topic of the movie. The topic extends only to acting, and begins to discuss various famous scenes with great acting skills. The topic can also be extended to idols and so on.
Reshape the topic
Sometimes the topic changes that we cannot fully control, such as talking about two people If you are not interested in a topic area, association and extension will not work at this time, because unfamiliarity will make people dull. For example, when chatting about celebrity gossip, the topic of homosexuality suddenly comes up.It is very important to reshape the topic in a topic that neither of them wants to start. "Speaking of homosexuality, in fact, there is also platonic spiritual love among heterosexuals. What do you think?"
