When it comes to relationships, many people will choose to follow their hearts, but in fact, I want to say that sometimes, if you want a long-lasting relationship, you can still rely on some skills to maintain it. Don’t believe it, let’s take a look at how to manage a relationship today!

1. You should not put your fantasies into perspective Forced upon her.

2. Don’t expect the person who loves you to love you the way you want.

3. Remind yourself: He is different from what you imagined.

4. You cannot impose your own ideal standards on the other party.

5. Don’t talk too much about your ex.

6. Keep a certain distance from the opposite sex and give the other person a sufficient sense of security.

7. Don’t always talk about breakups.

8. Don’t be too clingy and give the other person enough personal space.

9. If you have any problems, you must communicate in a timely manner and don’t keep a cold war.

 10. Don’t borrow money, don’t borrow money, don’t borrow money! Say important things three times!!

 11. When you are angry, you must tell the other party clearly that I am angry.

12. Don’t quarrel outside, and don’t just leave people where they are after a quarrel.

13. Running in both directions is the most meaningful.

14. Don’t use money to support your girlfriend.

15. Realize that she is not the woman in the TV series.

16. Realize that you are not the man in the TV series.

17. If two people hold back a problem and don’t talk about it, they waste a lot of affection on each other.

18. If you really can’t chat together, forget it as soon as possible.

19. Don’t ask no questions or tell ten questions.

20. Maintain two-way interaction.

21. When you have a partner, don’t hang out outside. It’s really shameful to have constant ambiguity.

22. Have your own affairs and don’t focus on others.

23. Don’t test how much the other person loves you by losing your temper and getting angry.

24. Don’t stupidly tell each other all the bad things your parents say. Sometimes white lies are also needed.

25. Still keeping in touch with your ex.

26. Don’t keep giving without expecting anything in return.

27. Don’t make major decisions at night, as it’s especially easy to have random thoughts.

28. Don’t forget to love yourself.

29. Boys should not over-expose their needs.

30. Give love a minimum expectation.

31. When you are in love, just have a good relationship, and don’t talk about marriage every now and then.

32. Don’t run away from problems.

33. Communicate more when things happen.

34. Don’t take the other person’s spending for granted.

35. Affect the normal life of the other half.

36. I feel that the other person’s contribution is deserved.

37. Don’t be the person who does things for the sake of doing things.


A collection of chat topics for long-distance relationships, essential topics to maintain long-distance relationships