Marriage death
What is marriage death
Marriage death generally refers to an irreparable crisis in a marriage. Although the couple is in a marital relationship, But in fact, the common characteristics of marriage have been lost - family harmony, sex life, mutual help between husband and wife, mutual care between husband and wife...
There have even been quarrels, fights, separation and other [behaviors]; cheating , suspicion, belittlement, contempt, etc. [Psychology], the husband and wife are in a nominal marriage relationship, and there are contradictions or conflicts that refuse to be mediated during their relationship.
Four characteristics of marriage death
1. Couples live like strangers or even enemies. The husband and wife share the same bed but have different dreams, seem to be in harmony but have different intentions, and are in intrigues. They lack sincere feelings as a couple.
2. Husband and wife lack basic communication, or they quarrel whenever they communicate. Husband and wife do not have good expectations and dedication for each other.
3. There is no praise and appreciation between husband and wife, only denial and belittlement, and even everything can be blamed on the other party.
4. When a marriage dies, couples will invariably resist and exclude sexual life, and cannot arouse inner interest when they are with each other.
Life after a dead marriage is not as good as a divorce
In the relationship between husband and wife after a dead marriage, emotions have become increasingly dilute. They are a couple in name, but in reality they are very tormenting each other.
Even if you live with the other person calmly, you can never find a suitable way to get along with each other, and conflicts often occur.
In the daily life of marriage, the mood is often in a negative state and it is impossible to be truly happy. Even a relaxed mood is a luxury.
Such a mutually tortured marriage and a life of entanglement bring only pain and harm to the couple. Instead of hurting each other, it is better to divorce as soon as possible and free each other.
What to do if your marriage dies
1. Fools complain a lot and talk to everyone like Mrs. Xianglin My family and friends are tired of hearing about my tragic experience, unable to get over the pain of the past, and they still hope to nag to win sympathy for the already bankrupt people.
2. The benevolent do not speak. Falling in love and breaking up, marriage and divorce are all matters between two people. In the final outcome of separation, both parties have shortcomings. Even if the responsibility lies entirely with the other party, keep silent. It’s a way of respecting each other.
3. Wise people forget more. Only those who completely forget the past can truly embrace the future. For my own sake, I must forgive you. oneMan cannot keep a poisonous snake in his chest forever; he cannot get up every night and plant thorns in the garden of his soul. ——Oscar
Wilde