Chasing girls requires very particular methods and skills. If you want to catch a girl, you must know what taboos you cannot violate. Let’s take a look at the three taboos of chasing girls.
1. Stinginess
Regarding the matter of stinginess, it can be said that it is a bit difficult to explain in one sentence. Brothers are motivated by the image of being diligent and thrifty, while some are unwilling to suffer losses.
Indeed, you cannot pay unlimited amounts for girls. However, don’t misunderstand this sentence. The meaning of this sentence is not to make you lose money, but to allow you to achieve value balance.
Therefore, never go to the other extreme of unlimited giving. In line with the principle of absolute fairness, every time you go out on a date, you must implement a strict AA system with girls, or try your best to make girls pay for it.
If you do this, there is no doubt that it is stingy in the eyes of girls. After a girl decides that a boy is stingy, the consequences can be imagined.
As boys, we pay the bill when we should. Being diligent and frugal means not spending money in vain within a reasonable range, rather than holding your wallet tightly to prevent girls from taking advantage.
2. The relationship with other members of the opposite sex exceeds her safety limit
When chasing a girl, if you You also often fight with other girls, whisper behind her back, chat on WeChat in the middle of the night, etc. It's okay not to be seen, but if she finds out, you will basically be in trouble.
Know that any girl has vanity and possessiveness. No matter how generous a girl is, she will not allow you to have such a close relationship with other members of the opposite sex while chasing her.
So if you are too intimate with other members of the opposite sex and exceed her safety boundaries, it will definitely leave a trace of grudge in her heart. If the misunderstanding is not resolved in time and continues like this, I'm afraid you will have no hope of chasing her.
If a boy shows too much "fraternity", a girl will be disappointed in you. She will feel that you can be as close to her as anyone, and she is not unique or unique. The girl will fall into a state of confusion. She will feel that such a relationship is not guaranteed, and she must carefully consider whether to accept your pursuit.
3. Being smart
It is also a contradiction. Women hate men who are smart, but men like to be smart. Be smart in front of women.
Some things that are too spotlight-grabbing and too artificial will seriously offend women. Although men who pretend to be cool are handsome, if they don’t pretend to be cool, they will become artificial. In the end, they can only fight on their own. Face.
On the other hand, some low-key and humble but passionate boys are very popular with girls.Like, give women the protection they need most at the right time, instead of making promises that cannot be fulfilled in the end, that is the saddest thing.
The smartest people are those who say the right words at the right time and do practical things at the right time. For example, if a girl teases her when she comes to visit her aunt, this is undoubtedly the behavior of a boy with low emotional intelligence and no skills. What you need to do at this time is to comfort and take practical actions.
