Before you confirm your relationship with a girl, your relationship must be very close, otherwise the girl will not let go and agree to be your girlfriend. You originally thought that since the two were already boyfriend and girlfriend, the relationship would definitely develop into a better and better relationship. Unexpectedly, you found that your girlfriend was getting colder and colder towards you. Why do you become indifferent to a girl after you establish a relationship with her?
1. Girls are not used to being your girlfriend yet
Those girls who are insecure will have no burden to be with you before they become your girlfriend. When chatting and dating, etc., your actions at this time will not be too intimate. It will give her a natural feeling of getting along with her, so there will be no burden when getting along with her. But some boys want to develop the relationship by leaps and bounds as soon as they establish a relationship with a girl. This will make the girl feel that your development is too fast, and she will feel a little impulsive. She feels that you need to calm down and keep a distance. This is Girls don’t feel safe enough.
Especially for a girl who has never been in a relationship, it is normal for her to have concerns, but since the relationship has been confirmed, it proves that she still likes you. In this case, just take it step by step, such as chatting with her often to let her get used to your presence, and behave yourself when dating together. The promotion of the relationship does not happen overnight.
2. The girl thinks you are inappropriate
Maybe the girl has a good impression of you when you first meet her , so I impulsively agreed to be your girlfriend. But after you become boyfriend and girlfriend, the girl discovers that she doesn't actually like you that much, or some of your behaviors and habits make her feel that you are inappropriate, so she wants to use a cold way to make you quit.
This situation actually means that the girl doesn’t like him enough, and even feels a little regretful about the decision to establish a relationship. At this time, the girl's feelings for you are not that deep, so if she wants to pull away, it will be very neat. In this case, it is recommended that you have a frank and honest talk with the girl. After all, love is a matter between two people, and you have to make it clear whether it succeeds or not.
3. Girls are busy or encounter problems
Sometimes you feel that after establishing a relationship with a girl The girl is cold instead. In fact, it is not that the girl is cold to you, but that she has been relatively free before, so she has the time and energy to date and chat with you. And since she has been busy recently, she will naturally not be able to respond to you as actively as before because she has no time.
If a girl is cold to you in this situation, you can directly ask her if she has encountered anything recently and if there is anything you can do to help. You can also tell her more about your feelings and thoughts. Be sure to say it out. If you don't say it and just blindly guess at this person, it will definitely not work.
The main reasons for being cold to a girl after establishing a relationship are the above three situations. You can analyze which situation you belong to based on your situation with the girl. .
