Falling in love is happy, but falling in a long-distance relationship is hard--missing each other but not being able to see each other, wanting to be warm to each other, but not being able to touch each other's arms. It may be okay at the beginning, but over time, apart from the past memories and each other, Talking about daily daily life, it is difficult to find other topics.
Gradually, lovers in long-distance relationships begin to become indifferent and forget... In fact, whether it is a long-distance relationship or any other form of love, both lovers need to maintain and care for each other in order to make the relationship last. long.
1. More communication
Lovers in long-distance places rarely meet each other, so they communicate emotionally. There are very few opportunities. If there is no communication, the relationship will undoubtedly become weaker and weaker.
Sharing emotions and states between lovers is a very necessary form of communication. Nowadays, the Internet is very developed, such as telephone, WeChat, QQ... As long as there is time, lovers can see and hear each other at any time. sound.
Couples in a long-distance relationship can share what they see and hear, take pictures of things they like, buy things for their lovers to refer to, listen to songs together, share their favorite movies and TV series, and let each other participate in their own life. in life.
As for what couples in a long-distance relationship talk about, it actually doesn’t matter at all. As long as they like each other, they can talk boldly. The most important thing in a relationship is the heart, not just a formality. Love with your heart and talk with your heart. , that’s right.
2. Have more trust and freedom
Some long-distance lovers, because they are not with each other, It is easy to generate some suspicions. When suspicions arise in relationships, it is generally difficult to maintain them!
Any interpersonal relationship is based on "trust". What's more, if you are a "heart-to-heart" lover, if you ask the other party questions without restraint and wantonly because of some clues, it will easily hurt the feelings of the two people.
Of course, the original intention of this kind of "suspiciousness" may be because you care too much, but the effect is bad! Lovers should have more trust and freedom, which is good for both parties. It's all a kind of relief. Long-distance love (love) should not be a bondage, but a freedom and joy.
3. Establish common interests and hobbies
Many long-distance couples cannot find common topics when chatting. Frequently encountered problems.
Because there is nothing to talk about, the time for chatting is getting less and less, which will inevitably lead to a breakup in the end. When there is a lack of common topics, you should find a way to solve this problem!
For example Establish common interests and hobbies. In this way, two people will have a bond of communication and can talk.It will also change more and more.
With more communication, the relationship will be more stable, the relationship between the two will be closer, and then there will be more "topics", and even if the two people do not speak, they will not feel embarrassed. Even just hearing the other person’s voice.
