Many boys may not be timid at ordinary times and appear to be generous in handling things, but when they meet a girl they like, they easily lose their sense of proportion and become very timid. Then they feel that they are not excellent in all aspects and feel that they are not worthy. I don’t fall in love with this girl, and then I feel a little timid in my heart. I like a girl but am embarrassed to chase her. How can I be with a girl in this situation?
1. Getting along as friends
Since your liking for girls has become a constraint on yourself, Then you might as well jump out of the frame of your feelings for the girl and chat with her like a normal friend. You don't need to be too deliberate. Sometimes being too deliberate will leave you with nothing to talk about. There is nothing embarrassing about liking a girl. When you get along with a girl as a friend, you will find that it is not difficult to get close to her and chat with her. Of course, if you are only interested in a girl, but the girl doesn't like you yet, then this is your unrequited love, and the relationship between your friends will not make him like you.
2. Add ambiguity
As mentioned above, getting along with friends will not make a girl like you. , I just have a certain understanding of you, and maybe I have a certain fondness for you. At this time, you can add some ambiguity appropriately. For example, you just naturally chat with her, make dinner appointments, etc., occasionally make jokes and tease her with love words, or give her small gifts that are only given between lovers, and have casual physical contact... Is she interested in you? Often the answer can be found in this process. But ha, this observation period cannot exceed one month. When the time comes, you have to make a judgment whether to move forward or give up. Hesitation is not good for both parties.
3. Strive to improve yourself
Boys have their own set of standards for choosing girlfriends. What is beautiful? Like a flower, good in the hall and in the kitchen, considerate, gentle and generous... Then in turn, a girl also has her own set of criteria for choosing a boyfriend. You can first try to understand what type of boys girls like. The appearance may only be changed by dressing up, but some of the qualities of boys, such as motivation, responsibility, character... these are what girls value very much, so boys You should work hard to improve yourself and show your excellent side in front of girls, so as to attract girls. If you find that after a while, she doesn't like you anymore, then it is recommended to let go decisively.
Since you like a girl and want to be with her, you need the boy to take the initiative. Don’t think about what to do if the girl rejects the call before you start taking action. Will it be ugly or not? Very embarrassing. There are many things that you won’t know the result until you try them. In addition, if the girl is really outstanding, you are afraid that you are not good enough for her, so you are embarrassed to pursue her.Then you should work hard to improve yourself and make yourself reach the other person's level. Otherwise, even if you are together, sooner or later you will break up because of the gap between you.
