As a car salesman, you still have the most basic eloquence skills, and the salary of a good car salesman is not low, so logically speaking, it should be easy for a boy who can speak well to find a girlfriend, but why is it still there? Why can’t many car salesmen find girlfriends?
Why can’t car salesmen find girlfriends?
1. Mentality
Many car salesmen cannot find girlfriends because they have no love experience, so When chasing girls, I always act like a licking dog, thinking that as long as I treat girls and make them feel that I am a good person, I can win her heart.
However, in this process, it will only make girls regard you as a low-value person, and the better you treat her, the lower your value will be in her heart.
It is this kind of mentality that makes you continue to devalue in the hearts of girls. Even if you have a good salary and good eloquence, if you kneel down and lick a girl when you are chasing her, you will not win her heart. Instead, she will use you as something to show off.
2. Concept
Many car salesmen put their whole body and mind into their work for the sake of performance, thus I neglected my hobbies, life, etc., and even ignored the issue of how to get along with women, making it difficult for me to find a girlfriend.
3. Social intuition and communication skills
Most car salesmen may be very knowledgeable in sales, but they don’t know how to deal with girls.
You cannot rely on your own intuition to roughly figure out the characteristics of this girl, and then communicate with her reasonably.
4. Spend money to chase girls
Many car salesmen with good performance are doing business because they have money. When you like a girl, you are always willing to spend money to buy her something. But under normal circumstances, girls will not use this as a criterion to find a boyfriend.
The boys who are truly popular with girls are not the boys who are willing to spend money on girls, but the ones who are willing to spend money on themselves.
Therefore, if a car salesman wants to find a girlfriend, he must first change his mentality and perspective, otherwise you can only wait for the price to be clearly marked on the blind date. Finally, remember that instead of spending money to please girls, it is better to spend money to improve yourself and become a man that girls like.
