In fact, many boys can’t find girlfriends. It’s not that they don’t meet the basic standards for girls to choose a mate, but that their personalities are too straight. In today's love culture, girls generally believe that boys should know how to please their girlfriends, understand girls' thoughts, and take girls' feelings into consideration. It is worth mentioning that women's "pleasant" thinking is a concept developed based on the idea of ??inequality between men and women, but they call for egalitarianism.
Closer to home, it is the gradually changing concept of love that makes straight male personality the direct cause of male singleness. See if you are showing these typical straight male behaviors in front of girls!
Straight men have difficulty communicating
Straight men can be briefly summarized as men with deep egoism, also known as toxic masculinity. (toxic
masculinity). Due to the egoism of straight men, they never think about their own problems when communicating with girls. Their opinions and practices are extremely correct and cannot be refuted. The only ones who are wrong are girls. For example, the mantra of the straight man Huang leader: Listen to everything. Mine, listen to me. Most girls don’t want to associate with such a straight man.
Straight men are arrogant
Straight men have an innate sense of superiority. He has an arrogant heart in everything, and occasionally shows some disdain for girls. He can show off in everything. Although he is useless, he can boast in front of girls. , and overestimated his own strength.
Straight men discriminate against women
In the eyes of straight men, girls are usually inferior to others. This usually manifests itself as: Don’t talk to women, is it your woman’s turn to talk...and subconsciously , straight men regard girls as men's appendages, like to belittle the importance of women, ignore the value of women, and even objectify women. When getting along with girls, he does not respect women and often makes comments about girls.
Straight men have low speech quotient
The manifestation of low speech quotient is that they never consider others when speaking. Feel. Straight men like to criticize everything when chatting with girls, and they also like to elevate themselves while belittling others. He is used to mentioning certain shortcomings of girls in public to make girls feel embarrassed and take pleasure in doing so. If you refute him, he will say that he is just expressing the facts. If you are angry, straight men will classify you as " Glass-hearted, stingy” ranks.