In fact, as long as you can get out of singles, you can find a girlfriend in any way, but many people would rather be single than go on a blind date. I often hear many people complain about blind dates, usually in jokes, but I still don’t understand why so many people Not willing to go on a blind date. Do you know why?
Why many people are unwilling to go on a blind date
The reason why many people want to find a partner on their own but are not willing to go on a blind date to get out of singles is because most people think that if they are good enough, they will be single soon. As long as the famous flower has a master, she will not be reduced to the point of needing a blind date.
In addition, as a girl, through my several blind date experiences, I have indeed discovered that the other person is either fat, short, has big yellow teeth, or cannot communicate at all. It's rare and normal that I suddenly broke up with my ex after dating for several years before getting married. So much time was wasted that I had to rely on blind dates. This kind of limited understanding will make some people, including me, think that blind dates are basically the ones left behind.
Also, if you are a little older, your parents will hold a kitchen knife to your neck and force you to go on a blind date, which makes your mentality even worse. As long as we get to the stage of a blind date, people will say in their hearts, Oh no, I am really a no-player, and I am in the opposite position. Go find Gao Fushuai, she came to me when she was desperate! This kind of person just doesn't have enough confidence in himself or others.
In addition, there are many video clips and the like, where the man on the blind date says very weird things and the girl on the blind date says that she is very money-loving. There is a plot, but there is still a certain gap between it and reality.
There are many people around me who are married to their blind dates. It’s not like there is no love, and some of them fall in love at first sight. Although it did not appear in me, I have to admit that there is still happiness.
For example, when I was having a gathering with friends before, I told a friend during a casual chat that one of his buddies paid a membership fee of 20,000 yuan in a dating agency. Everyone thought that person was kicked in the head by a donkey. . As a result, the man met Bai Fumei, who also paid high membership fees, and the two eventually got married. Because these two people are really unreliable, they can only meet people who match their conditions through reliable channels.
Therefore, blind date is to create opportunities to get to know more people through the introduction of middlemen. It's just that some middlemen made random introductions or made irresponsible mistakes, which led to unhappy results. In short, blind date is just a means of communication, as long as you can find the person who suits you, there is no need to resist or be afraid.
