In my knowledge, few people can love someone for ten years, so when the passion fades, couples How to maintain a relationship has become a problem that many couples want to solve, so today I will share my suggestions on the topic of "how to keep couples fresh". I will share 3 small methods with you. Let's do it together Take a look.
First of all, I want to emphasize that the loss of novelty is normal, because the more familiar a couple is, the novelty will gradually decrease. Why is this causal relationship?< /p>
The reasons are caused by three psychological reasons:
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When we first get together, we feel like our lives have been extended. We share each other’s life experiences, our perspectives become more and more familiar, our self-extension slows down, and most of our life experiences overlap. Many people feel that two people together are a bit boring.
In an intimate relationship, the more you give, the higher your requirements and expectations will be.
When you first get together, if the other person helps you carry a bag, you will feel caring. If you cook a meal for the other person, he will also think that you are very virtuous. But after two people have been together for a long time, everything becomes easy to take for granted.
The reason why you feel romantic in an intimate relationship. It's because of three factors: fantasy, novelty and arousal, but these three will fade over time and diminish.
At the beginning, whenever I hold hands, I will blush and my heart will beat. Now, even a kiss doesn't make my heart flutter.
The happiness that can be felt mentally and through the senses is like milk mixed with water, becoming bland and tasteless.
This seems a bit hopeless, so what is the solution?
Find fun for yourself, such as going to the movies on weekends, going to restaurants, trying new restaurants, and trying new activities. Can increase the joy of life.
When your partner feels pleased by you, he or she will be more considerate to you in daily life according to the principle of reciprocity. Pleasing will create intimacy. A virtuous circle in a relationship.
Improve the attraction to your partner.
Love is actually not continuous. Love is composed of countless heart-pounding moments, plus daily trivialities. When we feel that the days are getting more and more boring, it’s because our heart hasn’t moved for a long time.Appear. Therefore, there are only daily trivial matters in life. Therefore, you should do something to make the other person's heart flutter. This heart-beating moment is the lasting lubricant of love.
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