When chasing a girl and being rejected by the girl as a friend, some boys will choose to give up, while there are also boys who are unwilling to give up. When a girl talks about being friends, can she still pursue her?
Strictly speaking, chasing girls is not chasing, but constantly creating opportunities for girls to get to know us, thereby attracting girls and letting her They understand us, so if a girl says we are friends, she can usually pursue her.
However, there is a problem here. Generally, girls say that we should be friends. There are two scenarios:
1. Boys care or express their love to girls prematurely, and girls say that we should do it. friend.
2. The two of them have been together for a while, and the girl said that we should be friends.
If it is the first situation, this is not actually an expression of rejection, but the girl wants to know more about you, she wants to get to know you, and she wants to do something with you after she gets to know you well. Decide.
After all, a girl doesn’t know you well and doesn’t know what kind of person you are. She will definitely not dare to accept you rashly. . And from a girl's point of view, the scarce resource that women naturally possess is sex, and boys will flock to it. All the boys who come to chase me will show concern and enthusiasm for me. How can I know whether this behavior is done to get me, or if they really love me, so at the beginning we express love to girls. For girls Not reliable.
If it is the second situation, it means that you have not led the girl in the relationship and are not attractive, so the girl just wants to be friends. Decline you politely.
At this time, you need to be aware of current affairs and don't chase others like a lap dog. You are not her type. You need to look back at what is attractive about you. Are you a worthless person? What can she get from you? Falling in love is an exchange of value. No matter how nice a beggar is to me, I will never fall in love with him because he has no value! Interactions between people are exchanges of value.
What does a girl want when she goes out with you? Do you want to treat her to a meal? Do you want a movie ticket? Do you want to buy her a cup of milk tea? Can’t she afford it herself? She wants to be mentally satisfied. So at this time you have to give up temporarily, reflect on yourself, improve your skills in love, and learn to give girls spiritual satisfaction.
