It is normal for boys to chase girls, but some boys will do some behaviors that make girls feel uncomfortable during the pursuit, and these behaviors will make girls feel disgusted with them. Let’s take a look at what behaviors boys should avoid when chasing girls.
1. Disrespecting girls’ wishes
When a girl refuses your invitation or tells you she doesn’t like it You should respect her decision. If you keep pestering her, or even forcefully date her, you've lost her respect and trust.
2. Being too dependent on girls
When pursuing a girl, you cannot always rely on her to solve your problems. If you always tell her your troubles without caring about her feelings and needs, she will think you are insecure.
3. Belittle other women
If you often belittle other women when communicating with a girl, then she will think that you do not have enough respect and upbringing. Doing this will only make girls resent you.
4. No self-worth
If you completely give up your hobbies and interests when pursuing a girl, just to cater to her preferences, then you will make the girl feel that you have no self. value. Doing this will only make girls lose interest in you.
5. Over-enthusiasm
When pursuing a girl, excessive enthusiasm may make girls feel stressed and uncomfortable. If you're constantly texting, calling, or asking her out without caring about her time and space, she'll think you're lacking in sense of propriety.
6. Disrespecting women’s privacy
When a girl tells you some private information, you should keep it confidential and not disclose the information to others. If you talk about a girl's personal affairs when communicating with others, she will think that you don't have enough trust and respect.
Boys should avoid the above behaviors when pursuing girls, respect women's wishes and privacy, do not rely on her to solve their problems, and do not belittle other women. At the same time, you should maintain your own hobbies and interests, and pay attention to propriety and etiquette. Only in this way can girls develop real interest and affection in you.
