The reason why girls always fall in love with scumbag men and even repost them like crazy is because they all have distinct "prize attributes". What are the properties of the prize? The vast majority of boys pursue girls to pick up girls. Boys with a prize mentality are committed to making themselves the prize and letting girls take turns competing for her. The operation is divided into three steps.
First of all, being able to stimulate desire has become the most basic aspect of the prize. Not only do you want girls to desire you, but you also need to clearly demonstrate your own value. The problem with many boys is not that they don’t stand out, but that they are too ostentatious and have no sense of presence in front of girls. They are in their 20s and are not actively pursued by girls.
It’s not that his conditions are not good, it’s that no girl knows that he is in good condition and good-looking, but there are no decent photos in his circle of friends. You are obviously very successful in your career, but you usually remain silent about your work achievements. In this age of fast food lovers, I will not take the initiative to provide a window for girls to understand you, and girls will not have the patience to dig deep into the value behind you.
Secondly, set the threshold. The easier something is, the cheaper it feels, and the more challenging the threshold is, the more people will be eager to try it. Some brothers have realized the display of value, but they are still not attractive to girls because you have no threshold, and girls do not have much motivation to promote your relationship, nor do they have the desire to conquer.
Boys who think about prizes have principles and thresholds. They will not be enthusiastic towards all girls, nor will they tolerate and indulge girls unconditionally. Breaking principles creates a sense of superiority for him. On the contrary, if you are submissive to a girl and let her handle it, the girl will think that you are just kneeling and licking her, good or bad, and there is no need to pay much attention to you.
Third, competition. If there is a prize, there must be competition. The most taboo thing when dating a girl is to rush to show your loyalty. Once a girl feels like you must be her, she won't be afraid of losing you. The reason why girls will chase you is that you are in good condition, and they are afraid that you will not start quickly enough.
It will also be snatched away by others. Boys with prize attributes never shy away from letting girls know that they have other suitors of the opposite sex, and even deliberately expose their hot market. It will stimulate the girl's sense of crisis and force her to change from passive to active.
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