There are always boys who don’t know how to attract girls to chat with them. Often, girls lose interest in chatting with them before they even have a few words with them. Trying to force the conversation to continue makes girls become more and more impatient with them. What should I do? Woolen cloth? Let me share with you the chat methods and techniques to attract girls. Chat to attract girls in two ways.
1. Don’t argue with girls when chatting
What is no reasoning? For example, if a girl says to you, "You're a straight guy, you're talking to yourself all the time." How should you respond at this time? Maybe you will say: "No, aren't you having a good time talking now?" You see, you reasoned, and the girl said you chatted to death, but you insisted on saying no, you were arguing with her. And once there is an argument, the little bit of goodwill you have finally built up will disappear immediately.
I remember a business tycoon once said something like this: You win an argument, but you lose the hearts of the people, and in the end you lose your money. But losing the argument can gain people's hearts and eventually money. This is also true emotionally. When we get along with girls, we sometimes need to understand why? Is it to make her agree with you? Is it to make her surrender to you? Doesn't exist! It's more about the mutual respect between the two parties, and even as boys, they need to take the initiative to tolerate each other.
This description is a bit too preachy. The core point is: it doesn’t matter what the girl says. If she says 1+1 equals 3, you let her equal 3. What matters is that the relationship can heat up. Being able to be together.
2. Be positive when chatting with girls
When chatting with girls, you should always be positive Direction leads. For example, just now she said that you chatted to death, and you replied: "It's okay, I can bring chatting back to life!" This kind of reply has two advantages: 1. It has a positive attitude, and 2. You don't argue with her. As long as you do these two things, girls will generally like chatting with you.
Being positive is very important in a long-term relationship. One of the two parties must be positive so that the relationship can be maintained. There will always be many things in life that make people upset. Sometimes you want to slap her in the mouth, and sometimes she wants to kick you to Africa. The important thing is that you can always think of a more meaningful thing to do to cover those bad moments. Like putting on a new uniform tonight? A relationship can end quickly when both partners are in a slump.
What we said above: non-theory and positivity, these two points may seem like long-term relationship points, but in fact they are the key to a long-term relationship for girls. Very attractive. This kind of attraction is not the kind of instant attraction caused by a tall and handsome person, but a long-term attraction that becomes more and more attractive as time goes by! Of course, this requires you to grasp the direction well, otherwise you will become a licker! Licking the dog until there is nothing left.
