Love, why don’t you say it? This is a thought-provoking question. In Platonic love, love is a spiritual pursuit and sublimation rather than physical desire and satisfaction. Therefore, we should cherish and insist on this pure emotion more and express it bravely.
1. Fear of rejection
Many people dare not express their love, mainly because of fear rejected. They believe that if the other person does not accept their feelings, they will face embarrassment and heartbreak. However, if you remain silent, you may never get true happiness.
Therefore, before expressing love, we need to be mentally prepared. No matter what the outcome is, we must face it bravely and learn from the experience and lessons. Only in this way can we grow and progress better.
2. Worry about affecting friendship
There are also some people who dare not express love because they are worried about affecting their friendship. They believe that if the other person knows about their feelings, they will become awkward and uncomfortable.
But if we really fall in love with each other, then this feeling goes beyond friendship. At this time, staying silent will only make yourself more painful and helpless. On the contrary, if you can express it frankly, you may be able to gain understanding and support from the other party.
3. Fear of losing freedom
Some people dare not express love because they are afraid of losing freedom. They believe that once they fall in love, their actions and thoughts will be constrained.
However, in Platonic love, love is not a constraint and restriction, but a sublimation and improvement. Through the power of love, we can better discover our inner world and maximize our self-worth.
4. Ignoring true happiness
Finally, some people dare not express love because they ignore true happiness. They believe that they can continue to maintain the status quo even if they do not get a response from the other party.
However, in platonic love, true happiness is not one-sided dedication and sacrifice, but the joint pursuit and realization of both parties. If we remain silent, we will miss out on true happiness.
Love, why don’t you say it? Only by expressing yourself bravely can you get true happiness and satisfaction. Regardless of the outcome, stick to your beliefs and keep improving your emotional IQ and emotional abilities.
