In junior high school, having a crush is very common. If you have ever had a crush on a female classmate but don’t know how to pursue her, then this article is for you. The following will introduce you to some methods and techniques for pursuing female classmates.
1. Establish friendship
Before pursuing a female classmate, you must first establish a friendship relationship. Mutual understanding and communication can be enhanced through interactions in the classroom and joint participation in club activities. At the same time, pay attention to your words and deeds, be polite, humorous, and interesting, so that the other party can feel your benefits.
2. Express your feelings
When you feel that you have established a relatively deep friendship with your female classmate, you can consider expressing your feelings to her. You can choose to tell her how you feel in a sincere manner at the right time and place. But be careful not to be too forceful or sensational, otherwise it will put pressure on the other person.
3. Give small gifts
In daily life, you can give small gifts to female classmates, such as flowers, chocolates, etc. This can make the other person feel your care and warmth, and at the same time increase the feelings between each other.
4. Help her solve problems
When female classmates encounter difficulties or need help, you can take the initiative to lend a helping hand. For example, help with homework, accompany you to the hospital, etc. This will not only make the other person feel your care and concern, but also increase the tacit understanding and trust between them.
5. Stay confident and patient
Pursuing a female classmate is a long and arduous process that requires maintaining confidence and patience. Even if you encounter setbacks or failures, you must strengthen your beliefs and keep moving forward. At the same time, be careful not to cause pressure or harassment to the other party, and respect the other party's wishes and choices.
It is not easy to pursue a female classmate you had a crush on in junior high school. It requires a variety of methods and skills such as establishing friendship, expressing your feelings, giving small gifts, helping to solve problems, and maintaining confidence and patience. Only by sincere dedication and firm pursuit can we finally win the other person's heart.
