Many men think that they can’t find a girlfriend because they have no money, no car, no house, they don’t look very good, and they can’t talk to make women happy. Naturally, no woman wants to talk to them. In fact, your thinking is narrow. If you have average conditions but are motivated, there will still be women willing to be with you. So here’s the question, do you know why many women require their men to be motivated? What is the psychology of women?
Why do women require men to be motivated?
In fact, when choosing a mate, many women do not ask how rich the man is, whether he has a car or a house, etc. So what do you think women want? Are you treating her well? Are you honest? Of course not. If a woman sees you as your future potential, then she will definitely require you to be motivated, so that her original persistence will appear wise. In other words, you can have no money, no car, and no house now, but if you are motivated, then cars and houses will not be a problem in the future.
This is the same as the principle of stock trading. The ones that retail investors buy the most are not those with good performance and strong earning power such as Moutai. Big blue chips, because the stock price is too high, one lot can cost tens of thousands, and retail investors do not have the strength to buy them, so even if they want to buy, they will buy very little. In fact, what retail investors buy the most are those growth stocks that are hyped based on the news. The so-called growth stocks are stocks that have room for imagination about the future - you don’t have to make money now, but you can at least let me see how you will make money in the future." "Pie", this kind of ticket generally has a low stock price and is easy to buy. The game is about soaring into the sky after the future logic is realized.
The same goes for a woman when choosing a mate. The truly high-quality men she wants to choose are very few, and a large part of them are already married (things that destroy the family cannot be done, and it is not necessarily If there are good results), there will be even fewer diamond kings and queens left. Therefore, many women understand the truth that diamond kings and queens will not have their turn at all, so they can only gamble on those "potential stocks" that seem to be motivated. , they can soar into the sky in the future, and they can share the fruits of victory.
From a workplace perspective, marrying a wife is actually a process of drawing a pie, but many men draw too dry a cake for women to eat. You play games and order takeout every day and lie down at home. You also say that I will give you a good life in the future. Who can believe it? You must at least appear to be diligent and enterprising, and willing to "fiddle" in your career, so that your cake will not be too dry and your story will be complete.
So I think women should not be reminded of the requirement for self-motivation, but many men who want to marry a wife should do it themselves Some consciousness. Since you want to marry a wife, you must give her hope and make her feel that she will have nothing to worry about in the future if she follows you. Only then will she be able to continue to choose you when you have no car or house.
