When many boys are chasing girls, they think that touching a girl will make her heartbeat. However, many times a woman will indeed be moved by you, but she will not be moved by you. Being moved will not make her fall in love with you. So how to pursue a girl correctly?
We are all adults, have experienced the ups and downs of the world, and know a little about the world. So no one with any sense would really believe that. What's more, it is a recognized fact that women are more mature than men among their peers in most cases.
Take 10,000 steps back. Even if you are moved, is your move really that charming?
When girls reject boys, what they often say is: : Your love is too heavy, I can’t afford it.
Don’t think that this sentence is simply a good person card. There is a very important message in it: your love brings her not pleasure, but pressure.
You devote yourself wholeheartedly to girls, even at the expense of your own rest time and even working time. The result is that, even if you don’t say it clearly, your tired look, weak body, and declining performance... You are exposing the girl to the sacrifices you have made for her.
Girls are not stupid, she can see that. Your dedication sometimes does not bring you emotion. There is something worse than being moved, and that is pressure.
Although girls are willing to accept your sacrifice of yourself for a while, they are not willing to look directly at you who has been scarred for your dedication. The reason is simple, no one likes to owe others. Just when faced with a debt, some people will choose to repay it, while some people will choose to escape.
Facts have proven countless times that the second type of person is more common in reality.
So, don’t blame girls for liking capable men. With the same effort, capable men are more able to bear the consequences of their efforts.
The same is love, you love tragically, he loves calmly;
Your love brings pressure to girls, while his love brings joy to girls.
If you were a girl, which one would you choose?
So, friend, treat yourself as a girl When you are infatuated and willing to give your heart and soul to her, first think about whether she wants it or not.
If you give her your heart, she will take your heart, but she will not love someone without a heart.
You abandoned your career for her, and she succeeded in her career with your help. Why should she care about you when your career was abandoned?
Sometimes, think more about yourself and refuse appropriately. , use the time you plan to devote blindly to girls to enrich yourself
