When chasing a girl, many boys are eager to determine the other person’s attitude. However, after confessing their love, they can’t tell whether the other person is testing or rejecting them. The following editor will tell you the difference between a girl’s rejection and a test.
If a girl really refuses, it means that she feels that you are not suitable yet, and may say some words to let you know. It is difficult to retreat, and you will also take the form of rejecting your invitation.
The test for a girl is that she subconsciously doesn’t want to be attracted to you so quickly, so she has to pass the test of various details. I hope that through this test, the situation can be reversed. If these tests If you cope well, you may become her boyfriend. If you are not good, you may become a so-called good person.
No matter whether a girl is really rejected or a fake test, there are actually ways to deal with it. You can refer to the following methods to deal with it:
1. Direct refutation
Female: I have a boyfriend.
Male: Don’t think too much, I just appreciate your cheerfulness and friendliness. You and I just met, and I'm not that casual. I am very cautious when making girlfriends.
Admit exaggeration:
Female: Have you said this to many people?
Male: You discovered this. I said this to my fellow women all over the world. So now I feel so guilty that my palms are cold. If you don’t believe me, you can touch it and see. Then you can put your hand to hers.
2. Roundabout counterattack
Female: You are too fat.
Male: Being with a bean sprout like you gives me the motivation to lose weight. I never thought about finding a girlfriend before I successfully lost weight. Don't worry.
Acting cute and asking for advice:
Female: Do you want to chase me?
Male: Do you like me chasing you?
3 .Deliberate misinterpretation
Female: You are too domineering and I don’t like it.
Male: I understand, you like my gentle side.
Of course, how you should respond specifically depends on the situation you are in.
No matter what the girl’s current attitude is towards her, since your current understanding is not very deep, there is no need to rush. Slow down the pace of chasing girls, and then consider what to do next in response to her rejection or test.
