For many people, the relationship in the ambiguous period is the most beautiful, and because of uncertain reasons, everyone is particularly concerned about the ambiguous period. So the question is, how to deal with the ambiguous period? Right? Let me talk about my own views today.
In fact, you are particularly concerned about the ambiguous period. The reason is that you want to get the other person too much when you are in the ambiguous period.
But what I want to remind you is that when you care about the other person beyond the scope at the wrong time, you will slowly lose a small part of yourself and be influenced by it, which means you start to change. It doesn't feel natural anymore.
No longer natural means that you start to ponder and be cautious. You slowly lose yourself in this matter and start to lose attraction. You become unnatural, uncomfortable, and unable to let go.
So read my words carefully and remember them all!
1. Remember the first rule of the Law of Attraction: "Be yourself". Don't be a bitch, don't pretend, be neither humble nor arrogant, just be yourself and develop the relationship naturally and comfortably.
Only if you have a pleasant atmosphere, the other person will love to chat with you. How can you have a long-term pleasant atmosphere? You must first feel comfortable. Only when you are comfortable can you be stable and long-lasting, and then you can bring out the best in yourself.
2. Ambiguity does not mean that we must be together in the end, and no one belongs to the other. There is no need to accept the deep love you started too early. You don’t have to do it at the beginning! You have to know that the ambiguous period is just about getting to know each other. It is normal for the unpleasant understanding to break up.
3. Both of you have the right to know other people before the relationship is confirmed. This is not a scumbag! You must always remember that you are not in a relationship yet! He may be getting to know other people at the same time, so you can too Contact people who have a good impression of you and maintain your own life.
Otherwise, if you give up everything for the other party and the other party does not give you the return or relationship you think you should have, you will go too far and only want to get the other party and tie the other party, and you will be unbalanced and out of control.
4. You must always remember that whether you are ambiguous or in love, it is to make yourself happy, not to wrong yourself and make yourself think about sadness all day long. Having an extra person is to make you feel better. If you want to live a good life, wouldn’t it be bad to be single? Are you looking for trouble?
Therefore, when two people get along together, they must first be comfortable and natural. You can be more restrained, but don’t be too You won't be able to hold on to pretending for a long time, and you will also be very tired. I repeat that falling in love is to make yourself comfortable, do you understand?
