Tomorrow is the Chinese Valentine's Day. As far as I know, many single friends are planning to confess their love to the girl they like on this day, so I wish you all the best in advance. Success! But before that, I still hope to waste two minutes of everyone's time. Let's take a look at the love guide I brought to you today. It is also good to give your relationship an extra layer of protection.
1. Nothing remains the same forever
No one can guarantee that they will treat you well forever, because the world will change, and so will people. Those love words, "The mountains have no edges, the heaven and the earth are harmonious, I dare to be with you", "I will never let you down in this life", "We will be together in the next life", to put it bluntly, they are just to adjust the relationship between two people and make you happy. They cannot Treat it as a promise that must be fulfilled. When something is said, just listen to it and feel happy at the time. There is no need to go into detail.
2. Not all relationships are bound to have results
Not everything is within your control , especially feelings. No matter how hard you try and work hard, you may not get results. Everyone wants to have a love that will never break up, but it’s useless if you are the only one who has such an idea. , it depends on what kind of person you meet, whether he or she also has such a wish, and whether it is worth it for you to do so.
We must recognize this clearly!!!
In relationships, the purpose of working harder is not to hold someone back and prevent them from breaking up with us, but to prevent them from breaking up with us. In order not to leave any regrets, don’t let yourself regret.
3. It’s not just because you want to start.
You must understand that the person you are pursuing has the right to refuse. It doesn’t mean that you have done everything right and you have no bottom line. If you are good to him, he must agree to accept you. Pursuit itself is a risky investment, and the returns may be far greater than you expected, or you may lose all your money.
No one forces you to do all this, it is all of your own free will. Since you want to start, don't complain. Even if it doesn't work, don't feel resentful. If you're not mentally prepared, don't start.
4. Why fall in love
The greatest meaning of falling in love is to find someone with whom you can communicate spiritually. , rather than looking for someone who can take care of you or needs you to take care of you, because everyone can do it themselves when taking care of others. What we need more is someone who can understand your pain, share your troubles, experience your frustrations, and share your happiness, so that both good and bad times can be spent easily.
I hope this love information is not too late, and I hope everyone can find the right person, come on~!
