We all know that there is more to love than liking, but many people actually don’t know the difference between liking and loving, and they don’t know whether they like or love a girl. Below, I will share with you how a man goes from liking to liking. What is the process of transformation of love? Hope it gives you some insight.
What is the transformation of a man from liking to loving?
1. From replaceable to irreplaceable
Do you know what kind of person is the most difficult in a relationship? Is it cherished? That's right, he is someone who "only wants to please others" in relationships. This is actually very ironic - often when you try every means to gain the love and attention of a person by pleasing him, it will be difficult for you to achieve your goal in the end.
Because you are always in a low position in this relationship, and everything you do can be replaced, so how can others cherish and feel sorry for you from the bottom of their hearts?
The reason why many men feel tired of being in love is because you are too good to her, and you But he is too stingy towards himself. After getting together, have you figured out the task at hand? How far has the life you once dreamed of come true? How far have you completed the plans you once made up your mind to make?
Is it that after you fell in love, these originally important things were put aside indefinitely by you? This is actually the reason why you can't keep someone. If you fall in love and put aside your previous ideals, life and self, and put love as the most important thing, then I dare to tell you responsibly - this relationship will not last.
Then what is the irreplaceability of retaining a person? In short, it is a man's aesthetics, experience, personal value, social status, ideological realm, empathy, etc. This is the key to retaining a person. If a woman leaves you and she can't find anyone who can meet her needs, you are the only one and cannot be replaced. This is love.
2. Two people can grow together
In fact, true love does not last for a long time no matter how sticky, understanding and tolerant two people are. On the contrary, those two people have deeply lived into a community of destiny, and love is a springboard to achieve a better relationship.
Because of the existence of this love, your career, studies and life begin to enter a virtuous circle. Similarly, women continue to become excellent because of your existence. No one can leave the other person and break into two. If they separate, both parties will have to bear unimaginable consequences and risks. So no one wants to get to the point of breaking up.
If you are in love, you can clarify a woman's core needs for you and integrate them into her life accurately and effectively.In life, you have achieved irreplaceability - then congratulations: this woman can no longer live without you, then it can be said that she has slowly fallen in love with you.
The above two points are the transformation of a man from liking to loving. Is this the same for you?
