Many boys may think that if a girl is willing to chat well with them, it proves that she has a good impression of them, otherwise the girl may not care about him at all. So why can I have a good chat with a girl but fail to express my love to her? What is the psychology of girls?
1. You confessed your love too early
If you can chat well with girls, you should make more appointments during the chat, and create a few times in between. Little ambiguity, as long as girls are not stupid, they can more or less sense your attitude. Then continue to create some small opportunities for contact. When the girl no longer resists you, it will basically be done. If you confess your love to a girl at this time, it's probably safe. And by not confessing before, it was to leave some buffering space in the relationship when the other party still resisted. It seems a little late to say this now, because your confession was too early and the girl was not ready yet, so she rejected your confession.
Can this situation be undone? Of course you can, but you need to get back to the friend-like status with the girl first, and then proceed with the steps we mentioned above. But one difficulty now is that girls have understood your thoughts, so they may be a little resistant to your contact. You need to find a way to resolve this yourself. Who made you so uneasy and confessed prematurely?
2. The girl treats you as a friend
Although you and the girl can have a good chat, you cannot break through the relationship, and her interest in you remains at the friend stage. You can be friends and chat, but you can't be boyfriend and girlfriend. In this case, if you want to break through the relationship, you must make attraction a prerequisite and make the girl interested in you. Then it will be easier to break through the relationship.
Because if a boy wants to establish a relationship with a girl, the key point is that your own value and charm can attract girls, so that girls will be more interested in you. Only then will you be interested, instead of just giving to girls blindly. If you only pay to girls, then you are likely to become a spare tire in the end. As for how to do it specifically, you have to understand in advance what qualities girls are attracted to in boys, and what are the difficulties currently preventing you from being together?
3. Girls didn’t think about it well
In fact, many times girls are confused when faced with boys’ confessions, and subconsciously reject them before thinking about it. However, girls may also be very confused afterwards. Regret, and she will express her regret through actions.
@ foolish little insect: Sometimes girls don’t think about whether to agree to you, but they can’t say it because of face~ Actually I tried it, and a boy confessed his love to me. Then I was confused for a moment and didn't know what to answer, so I didn't say yes or no. He thought I rejected him and didn't say anything further. ThatIn fact, there will still be interactions when we meet later. I will deliberately comment in his circle of friends, but he will not get it, and then, there will be no more~
It’s better to warn the boys, even if you If you have a good conversation with a girl, don't confess your love rashly, because having a good conversation does not mean that the girl accepts you. Maybe she is fine, and maybe she thinks it is normal to chat with you as a friend. Don't be pretentious and think that she is a girl. Like you.
