Many boys are infinitely disappointed after failing to confess their love, feeling that there is no possibility for themselves and girls anymore. In fact, it does not mean that it is absolutely impossible if the confession is rejected. As long as you follow up with the right recovery methods, there is still a lot of hope. With girls. Xiaomian will share with you 6 ways to recover after a failed confession and teach you how to win her back.
1. Calm down your mentality
The most important thing after failing to express your love is your mentality. Don’t insist on persuading the other person to agree to you. Whether you like him or not is determined by your previous performance. Yes, it is impossible to change it with just a few words. Don't get angry and accuse the other person or block or delete it. You have the freedom to express your feelings and others naturally have the right to refuse. If you want to blame, you can only blame yourself for not being attractive enough. After failing to express your love, don't deliberately say something like "I'm just joking. You won't take it seriously." This kind of lame lie is not a fool. Covering it up will only make you more embarrassed and cowardly.
After the confession fails, just say "OK, I understand" and return to the previous way of getting along, and do whatever you want.
2. Give her a sense of gap
After the confession fails, you should give the girl a sense of gap. Don’t act like As before, you would chat with her whenever you have free time, letting her feel that you are not unable to survive without her, and that she is not as important as you think, which makes her feel lost. At this time, the girl actually begins to feel your importance in her mind, but she just doesn't admit it verbally.
3. Reflect and change yourself
Since the confession has failed, it means that you still can’t make girls like you. Give yourself a period of time to calmly think about what is not enough and then improve it in a targeted manner. At the same time, give the other person a period of time to feel the gap caused by missing you in their life.
Then look for opportunities to appear in front of the other party with a new look. Don’t take the initiative to mention things you confessed before, and don’t expose your needs too obviously. Get along with them in a relaxed attitude and re-establish a sense of familiarity. Show yourself. As for whether it can succeed in the end, it depends on how far it can be changed.
4. Contact and test girls
When you feel the time is right, contact girls, Yun Danfeng Chat lightly, slowly and tentatively contact the girl, and decide whether to continue based on her attitude. If a girl doesn't rule out chatting and dating you, then there's still trouble. If a girl responds coldly to you when chatting with her, and you can't ask her out on a date, then you need to work harder.
5. Stimulate girls
If a girl has a positive attitude towards you but still doesn’t clearly accept you, then you can consider stimulating the girl. For example, posting photos of you with other girls and showing your high-quality life will make girls think that you are quite popular and you seem to be pretty good, right? She will also be in crisis under this kind of thinkingSensational.
6. Ambiguous behavior
If you can interact well with girls, then come down Don't rush to confess, but try to test the girl with some ambiguous behaviors and ambiguous interactions to see if she will be repulsed by it. If not, then you are not far away from a confirmed relationship. If it still rejects you, then you may need to make persistent efforts.
