Many boys understand that you should not confess your love when chasing a girl. But if you don't confess, many boys don't know how to pursue a girl, so today, the editor will teach you how to let her know your feelings without confessing.
1. Self-exposure
It’s the weekend, ask her out for a meal; it’s the holidays, send her via WeChat A blessing (don’t let people see that it’s the kind of group message); you can’t go out during the epidemic, so if you have nothing to do, share interesting things in life, chat and so on.
In short, you have to let girls see you, understand you, and see your heart.
Of course, you can’t tell others about your family status too frequently. You have to learn to expose yourself in a roundabout way.
For example, post to a circle of friends to show your daily life, circle of friends, hobbies, etc., and see if girls will like and comment on you. I wonder if girls follow you. , isn’t this a good opportunity?
2. Increase interaction
No matter boys or girls, they must have had this experience: for people who don’t like Of the opposite sex, even if she sends you messages every day, responds to your messages instantly, and greets you with a smile at all times, you just can't like her.
But for those who like her, they can’t wait to follow all the social media accounts she uses and like and comment on every content.
This is a normal psychological expression of liking someone. Because I like it, I am eager to increase interaction.
The opposite is true, if you like a girl, you have to convey this message by increasing interaction.
In addition to social media interaction, chatting more is the most direct and effective way to convey signals.
Of course, one problem that everyone must avoid is not to chat just for the sake of chatting. You must know that the ultimate purpose of chatting is to get closer to each other.
3. Look for commonalities
There are many friends around me, and I asked them how they found their partners. I met him either in a hobby class or at a friend gathering.
This is the advantage of having something in common. Even if it is just a mutual friend, it can provide you with opportunities to get in touch.
But let me tell you, even if the opportunity is in front of you, not everyone can seize it.
Just say that you sing at parties. You said that you don’t usually practice two of your best songs. As a result, you can only sit there and listen to others sing at critical times. How can people pay attention to you?
Commonality is an important link that allows two strangers to quickly establish a connection.
4. Showing needs
Confession means over-showing needs, and over-showing needs is not acceptable, because it will make you passive state.
But not going too far doesn’t mean you don’t need to show your needs. Especially after you become familiar with her, you need to strike while the iron is hot and properly show your need for her so that the girl can clarify your attitude.
Otherwise, if you have been together for a long time, the other person may mistakenly think that you just treat her as a friend because she cannot sense your feelings.
But the key to grasping the scale is not to do it too often, to keep your own life circle, and not to let the girl feel that you are taken over by her.
So even if the invitation is rejected, don’t be angry or think too much. Does she not like me anymore?
This will only put you in a passive position.
In fact, sometimes chasing girls is also a game. Before taking any action, you have to tell yourself: I like her, but I can’t lose myself. Just stop everything.
