I don’t know if you’ve noticed it yet—a girl who doesn’t like you or has feelings for you won’t respect you. Think about it, if those who don't like you send messages, she will just ignore them, reply if you want to reply, and just ignore them if you don't want to reply. People only care about the people they like. So how to judge whether a girl likes you through chatting? The following is divided into three parts to chat with you:
1. Elementary liking
If you chat with her, she will reply to you. Regardless of whether it takes a long time or a short time, we will eventually reply to you. Some will even tell you the reasons why they didn’t reply, such as being busy, forgetting, etc. These show that she cares about you, so she respects you and cares about your feelings.
The fault tolerance rate for you at this time is average. Let’s say that when you first met her, you said something that was very low in emotional intelligence or made her disgusted. She would tolerate it, but it would cost you both. feeling. Every time it turns her off, it becomes less attractive in her eyes.
In the "primary liking" stage, the error tolerance rate for you is average. You can make mistakes but don't make them all the time. Be wary of saying disgusting and low-EQ words to make her lose feelings for you.
Summary: reply + express reasons + care about your feelings
2. Intermediate like
< p> Intermediate level of liking is one level higher than primary level of liking. At this time, my love for you is stronger. You are a shining star in her eyes.If you ask her to go out to play, she will readily agree. She looks calm on the outside, but in her heart she has long wanted you to ask her out to play. Inner OS: Why hasn’t this idiot asked me out yet? She’s wanted to go out a long time ago~
She won’t reject the sense of distance between Vigilance and you at all, and will even ask you to help her weigh a bag or give her a hand. of. If you think about it, she wants to possess her. Do you still care about whether men and women have sex or not?
Boys are lustful, and girls are even lustier. She just doesn't say it out loud. At this time, the "error tolerance rate" is in the middle, and she will be tolerated if you say something with low emotional intelligence that hurts her.
How to reflect it in chat? Do these three things while chatting: 99% of the time she likes you.
Chatting with you: The reply speed is fast, the number of words in the reply is large, and the topic participation is high.
Even if she is unfamiliar with topics, she will listen to your explanations and will even search for information and knowledge in related fields to ask you for advice.
Summary: Cooperate with you + fast reply speed + many words + high topic participation
3. Super Like
Super like. This is the highest intensity of liking. When chatting with you, you don’t have to think about the topic at all. She will take the initiative and make you cry. You may be handsome, you may be rich, you may be outstanding. In her eyes, you are perfect.
?And how will girls behave towards you at this time? Reasonable your behavior, even if you make her uncomfortable, she will take the initiative to be considerate and understanding of you, and will also take the initiative to chat with you to find topics. When she talks about you to her best friends, she will praise you with a happy smile.
At this time, the "error tolerance rate" is the highest, and you are almost perfect in her eyes.
Summary: rationalize behavior + take the initiative to open the topic
Look at those handsome people who are excellent in themselves Do boys line up and girls take the initiative to chat with him? Because girls are human beings too, and they also need to be single.
