In modern society, people pay more and more attention to social and communicative skills. And chatting with the opposite sex is one of the important ways. So, how to chat with girls? Several aspects will be discussed below.
1. Break the ice
Many people feel awkward and nervous when meeting for the first time. Therefore, breaking the ice is a very critical step. You can lighten the mood by saying hello, introducing yourself, etc. For example: "Hello, my name is Xiao Ming, nice to meet you." or "The weather is really nice today, what do you think?" These simple topics can make the other party feel that you are friendly and cordial.
2. Find common ground
During the chat process, it is very important to find common ground. This will give you more to talk about and get to know each other better. You can start from work, study, hobbies, etc., find similarities and start a conversation. For example: "Do you also like watching movies? What good movies have you watched recently?" or "Our company also has a similar project, how is it doing there?" These topics can bring you closer.
3. Pay attention to details
During the chat, it is also very important to pay attention to details. For example, if the other party mentions his or her birthday or favorite food, you can mention it in subsequent chats and send a small gift or invite the other party to try it. This will make the other person feel that you care and considerate.
4. Don’t be too eager to confess your feelings
Many people are eager to confess their feelings when chatting with the opposite sex. However, confessing your love after the first meeting or after chatting for a few times can easily make the other person feel stressed and uncomfortable. Therefore, during the chat, you can appropriately hint at your feelings, but do not be too direct and intense.
5. Respect each other
Finally, respecting each other is also very important. During the chat, do not use vulgar language or offensive language. If the other party has any opinions or ideas, you should listen patiently and respect them. This will make the other person feel that you are mature and stable.
When chatting with girls, pay attention to breaking the ice, finding common ground, paying attention to details, not being too eager to confess, and respecting each other. Only in this way can the relationship between you become more intimate and stable.
