No girl doesn’t care about her appearance, so when chatting, girls are more sensitive to the topic of appearance. So if a girl takes the initiative to say that she is ugly, how should a boy respond with high emotional intelligence?
1. False disqualification
False disqualification is a common method for girls. It is very easy to use false disqualification. You can easily test the other party's interest in you and guide the other party to invest emotionally in you. For example, if a girl you like says "I feel so ugly", it's not that she really thinks she is ugly, she is trying to make you think that she is not confident about herself.
If you like the other person, then you will comfort and praise the other person and reply: "No, you are really beautiful", "No, no, no, you are simply the best goddess in my heart, especially The eyes are really beautiful, as if they are like tranquil lake water."
Through your reaction, the girl learns that you are very interested in her, and that you are constantly comforting her, "consoling" her to be confident in herself, thereby guiding your emotional investment.
Boys with high emotional intelligence can easily understand this. Imagine that a girl with superior conditions has countless suitors, how could she not be confident in herself? At this time, boys with high emotional intelligence are like this Reply: If you were good-looking, I wouldn't be good enough for you. Girls can tell that this guy is not a stupid straight guy. He understands girls and can figure out their thoughts. This is a plus.
2. Lower expectations
In the era of mobile Internet, various photo editing tools have exploded, and girls use social software to Naturally, he will modify his beauty. When she meets a boy she likes, in order not to let you be disappointed when you meet your true self, she will find ways to lower your expectations.
"I am so ugly" and "The photo is P's" are the most commonly used methods by girls. If you say that a girl is modest and she still explains that "it's true", it means that she is really lowering your expectations to prevent the gap between real people and the Internet from being too big and disappointing you. This shows that she cares about your feelings and who you are, which is a good sign.
At this time, all you need to do is tease and reply: Whoever said you are ugly, I will hit him.
3. Just modesty
There is a saying on the Internet, "If you want to compliment me on my good looks, I will If you say it's P's; if you say my photo is P's, I'll send my regards to your family; if you say I'm ugly, I'll fall out with you." Although this sentence is just a joke, it has been recognized by many girls and is a reference for girls' true thoughts.
When a girl is not familiar with you or is just a stranger, if you praise her, she may become humble.Down. Tell you, "I am ugly" and "I belong to P". You don't need to care, just understand that she is being modest.
