Due to the abuse of the law of attraction, many boys chat to show their "attraction" to each other and express their personality charm through vivid modifications. But in fact, if you think about it carefully, many boys are not that attractive to talk at length, and not many girls are willing to listen to a stranger telling strange stories. So finding the right chat topic when chatting is the key!
The chat topics that girls are interested in are not actually listening to boys bragging, but they like talking about themselves. Therefore, boys need to understand the interests of girls, because different girls have different hobbies and interests. Some girls may be in the entertainment circle, some girls may be serious comic fans, and some girls are addicted to video games...
How to find a girl’s points of interest
A girl’s points of interest can be found in her circle of friends, QQ space, Weibo, and Zhihu Wait for it to be fully displayed on social media, because girls often leave their own life footprints and thoughts on these platforms. From these places, it is easy to analyze the interests, hobbies and personality tendencies of girls. After knowing the points of interest of girls, it is easy to start a conversation by bringing up this topic.
How to talk about these points of interest
Don’t talk about the points of interest that girls are proficient in but you are unfamiliar with. For example, if a girl majors in painting, boys should not forcefully talk about her interests. If a boy talks to a girl about painting techniques such as image, outline, layering, and light and shade, it is easy for a boy to act like a knife in front of a girl. Feeling, and many times will make her realize your ignorance.
Talk about the points of interest that girls are interested in and aware of. If a girl likes hip-hop but knows very little about hip-hop and she knows nothing about it when you mention the words "poping", "breaking" and "locking", then don't continue this chat topic. Only if you want to talk about some chat topics that she is interested in and understands something about, a girl will be willing to continue chatting with you.
How to carry on the topic
When boys and girls talk about a certain topic, they definitely need a certain degree of transition. Sentences serve as a natural continuation of the topic. Otherwise, it will appear too deliberate. Never say to a girl while chewing hand cakes, "Norwegian Wood" by Haruki Murakami is so touching! My brother and I both cried when we watched it!" The abrupt context is likely to It makes girls feel embarrassed.
For example, if a girl loves to play games, you can meet her in LOL and say to her, "I see you are very talented, come and play the bottom lane with me."
