Chasing girls is like sailing against the current. If you don’t advance, you will retreat. If you don’t upgrade your relationship in time when you are chatting with a girl, then after the hot chat stage is over, you will probably enter a cold period, and during this period, you will The relationship will slowly cool down, so how should you spend the cold period after a hot chat with a girl?
Chatting with girls will enter a cold period. The most critical reason is that during the chat, if you chat for a long time, there will be no novel topics, making the chat boring. In the eyes of girls, such news is news that may or may not be answered, and naturally they become more and more indifferent as time goes by.
To get through this cold period of chatting, you don’t need to find any novel topics. You just need to understand the girl’s core needs and then talk about what she wants to talk about during the chat.
Generally speaking, what girls need is freshness, mystery, emotional comfort, a sense of security, satisfaction of vanity, and need for care and love.
Therefore, what we have to do is to take the initiative to contact girls more often, and through constant chat practice, we can train ourselves to be keenly aware of the unique, strong, and real needs from their speech and behavior, and be targeted. chat.
For example:
Girl: I think our work places are quite close...
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(This may be a hint that we have been apart for so long, why don’t we go out to have a meal and watch a movie together)
Girl: I think I have gained a little weight recently...
(This may be a hint to you, why don’t you compliment me on my beauty soon)
Girl: I often get off work recently, and every time I go home, the light is broken. It’s really scary
(The girl is complaining to you, you have to comfort her. It would be better if you could send the girl home every day)
2. Provide emotional value to the girl
As we all know, girls are emotional Animals' emotions are easily affected by external things, such as a touching human text or when they see poor animals on the roadside, they will automatically be emotionally involved and feel melancholy and sad emotions. When you chat with girls, if the topic and atmosphere are very dull, it will naturally not affect the girls and will not cause any emotional fluctuations. It is difficult for such a chat to leave a deep impression on girls.
Therefore, if you want to get through the cold period, in addition to chatting about what girls want to talk about, you also need to properly stimulate girls' emotions and create a "flirting" chat atmosphere, so that you can chat faster. Only by getting through the cold period can she be more willing to continue chatting with you.
For example:
Boy: I’ll give you ninety points. (Pull)
Girl: What?
Boy: You are so smart and pretty, can’t you understand? (Pull)
Girl: Haha, thank you Praise
Boy: But... the perfect score is a thousand points. "(Push)
Girls: Am I that bad?
Use push-pull techniques in chat to make girls' emotions change from doubtful to happy to a little bit emotional, and make girls' Emotions are diversified.
Therefore, if you want to get through the cold period after chatting with girls, the first thing to do is to change the idea of ????chatting, actively create excitement, and rebuild a sense of freshness.
