In the process of falling in love, if you don’t know how to chat, it is easy for the other party to feel that there is a problem in the relationship between the two parties, or even a direct relationship crisis. So how should you chat when you are in love? Let me share with you some chatting skills in love.
1. Chatting should be done step by step
Emotions should be developed step by step and slowly. The same is true for chatting. Don't rush to say something that is too early. Especially don't be too "eager", some girls will be shy, and boys can wait until the relationship is more intimate before mentioning the topic of kissing or even taking it one step further.
2. Express care more when chatting
When you are in love, caring for your partner is undoubtedly the best way to reflect your love for her. But there is also a way to express concern. Drink more hot water and say less. Because saying too much may make your girlfriend feel that you don't care about her. No matter what you say, you are talking about drinking more hot water.
3. Free expression
Don’t choose silence just because you are worried that your speech will be looked down upon by the other party. Or you can choose some topics that you are not very good at and have dry exchanges. You must know that you have become boyfriend and girlfriend, and you can freely express your attitudes and opinions, and even embarrassing things that happen to you, which can increase the relationship between you. With the familiarity, even if you make a mistake, you can find differences in time and reconcile or correct them.
4. Understand your hobbies
Know yourself and your enemy, and you will never be in danger. You can also use this technique when talking about love. If you want to make your girlfriend inseparable from you, then you must master her preferences, so that you can please her by chatting with her on a regular basis, and you can deliver gifts to your heart during holidays.
5. Look for intersections
Usually boys prefer objective science and engineering thinking, while girls prefer liberal arts and delicate and sensitive thinking. The things two people like are very different. At this time, it is time to find the intersection between the two fields. For example, you can talk about your thoughts on that field and let the other person correct it. You can also compare the differences between the two fields. There are many topics that people don’t understand at first, but they hope that someone will lead them into this field, which can add a lot of new and interesting information. Feel.
6. Remember information
During the chat, your girlfriend will always reveal some information about herself inadvertently. It’s not that you have to remember every sentence you chat with, but you can make good use of some important information such as your family and work situation, which can allow you to surprise her in future interactions or show your attentiveness. .
