In the stereotype of many people, love is usually between men who are older and women who are younger. In fact, with the changes of the times, many people no longer care about age in their relationships, and there are more and more sibling relationships. So how should you chat with a girlfriend who is older than you?
1. Sweet words coupled with actions
Mature women have indeed experienced a lot to get to where they are today. Those sweet words may seem to make them happy in a short period of time, but they are also easy to get tired of. After all, they are just words. Who wouldn’t? Siblings and brothers. The most important thing for young boys in love when getting along with mature girls is to avoid all talk and no action, and learn to use sunny and sincere actions to break through the defenses when saying caring words, such as:
When she is at work When you come home exhausted after a busy day, say "I miss you!" and then take the initiative to take the heavy bag she is carrying, wait for her to sit down and give her a relaxing massage. Wait until she relaxes before taking out the dinner you prepared. Even the most beautiful woman will be defeated by you!
< h2>2. Seize the opportunity to chatFrom a psychological point of view, people’s moods have ups and downs throughout the day, and this is true for even mature women. Therefore, siblings also need to grasp the opportunity to chat.
The first opportunity for siblings to chat is to seize the early morning time. Try to greet her good morning when she gets up. If the good morning greeting is in a positive language, you can send some humorous stories, fun short videos and posts. If you are in a good mood in the morning, you will be full and high-spirited throughout the day, and women will also like to chat with you.
The second key point when chatting between siblings is to avoid sending messages at night, especially at 11 o'clock and after. One is that she may have already fallen asleep at this time, and if you disturb her again, she may think you are not very sensible. Another very important reason is that 11 o'clock in the evening is the time when people are most anxious and unhappy, so don't establish contact at such an inappropriate time.
3. Observation method
If you don’t know what to talk about with a girl, you can Find out what interests her by observing her circle of friends. You can also pay more attention to what she says and does when you are in contact with her, and you can also know what she likes. Or when you go to her home, take a closer look at the decoration of her home. For example, if you have a cat, you will definitely like pets; if you have flowers, you will like green plants; if the kitchen has all the seasonings, then you will love cooking...
< p> In fact, there are no special skills on how to chat between siblings, and each girl will be different. There are also factors such as personality to distinguish how to chat, etc. In addition, the most taboo thing for boys in a sibling relationship is that they are too childish or chauvinistic.Childishness will make girls feel cumbersome, and masculinity will make girls feel depressed. The relationship between siblings is actually about being comfortable with each other, and there are no other taboos in chatting.