When chatting with a girl you just met, you definitely can’t make her fall in love with you through just a few words. If you want to express your feelings through chatting, you must learn to show your own value in chatting. So what should you do specifically?
How to chat with a girl you just met?
1. Use less questions
"What is your name?" "What do you do?" "Where do you live?"
Most boys will ask these questions when they first add girls. But in the minds of girls, a lot of questions = boring.
So try changing the question into a statement.
For example, if you want to ask a girl if she has eaten? You can say: "You don't know how to cook, but I see that you eat well every day."
The girl tells you : "It's all cooked by my grandma and mother." You can just say: "I envy you, I also want to eat the food cooked by my family."
You are talking too fast, you are not a chatterbox. Have you opened it? Fixed sentence patterns include "I think you are a... girl", "You seem to be...", "Have you practiced the ability of...".
2. Reasonably extend the topic
"Have you eaten?" "What are you doing?" "Good morning" In a boring chat like "Good night", a girl may reply a few words out of politeness at first, but what happens at the end of the conversation?
Some boys are like this. When a girl says something, he doesn't know how to answer it. I want to create a pleasant chatting atmosphere, but I am also afraid that if I say the wrong thing, the girl will be unhappy, or if I am afraid that the girl will not like my topic.
In fact, chatting with girls is no different from writing essays before. For example, if the teacher asks you to write "spring in your hometown", how would you write it? There are two key words, one is "hometown" and the other is "spring".
If you grasp "spring" and expand your imagination, you can write about spring rain, rape blossoms, peach blossoms, etc. If you grasp "hometown" and expand your imagination, you can describe farmers working in the fields, frogs gradually croaking in the fields, etc.
In the same way, the content of the chat is hidden in the girl’s words. When a girl says, "I'm too tired from working overtime today." There are two key words, "work overtime" and "tired".
Start the topic with "overtime". You can think of salary, dreams, abilities, colleagues, boss, working atmosphere, etc. Then we can talk: "What I fear most at work is encountering colleagues who get into trouble. Do you have colleagues like that?"
Using "tired" to start the topic, you can think of rest, sleep, entertainment, massage, etc. You can say: "I see you are so tired. Let's go to a movie on the weekend to relax."
It not only diverts attention, but also takes advantage of opportunities to date, killing two birds with one stone.
3. Lead the topic
There are many boys who are good at chatting with friends, but once they chat with the girl they like, Things have changed. Nothing but fear, just fear.
Especially when he meets a girl who is also relatively passive, he completely gives up.
In fact, the way to deal with it is very simple, which is to guide the topic.
Go talk to a girl about the topics she wants to talk about, such as celebrities, TV series, variety shows, fitness, etc. This can greatly satisfy the girl’s desire to share and her right to speak, and in these topics, Subtly implant your own high value.
For example, when talking about fitness, we can say: "I made a fitness meal last time. It was really cheap and delicious. It is a quick sale for light food takeout."
Lead the topic , the core of showing high value is that you have a life and value that others do not have.
But we don’t have to make something out of nothing, have to pretend or something, just show your strengths, such as singing, or a good figure, these are values ??you can show.
