In the early stages of chasing a girl, awkward chatting is an essential and difficult part. If there were no awkward chats, there would naturally be no love problems or emotional counseling. In fact, awkward chats are a stress response of girls to boys who forcefully flirt with girls! How to deal with awkward chats is the chatting skills for falling in love with girls. Turning awkward chat into hot chat is exactly the chat skill that single men should master.
Avoid unfriending
Girls usually have no interest in awkward chats . Because the forced party (girl) in awkward chats often feels at a loss, overwhelmed, and easily feels forced. Therefore, during awkward chats, girls with a little bit of personality are likely to unfriend them directly, leaving boys to have no awkward chats. During the awkward chat period, even if the boy's chat content is very topicless, it should still have characteristics (humor, uniqueness, maturity, etc.). Only in this way will the girl have expectations for the subsequent conversation and avoid ending the friendship.
It is forbidden to talk about others without thinking about others
In awkward conversations, although there is no focus on the topic and it is basically random talk, you should not talk about others without thinking about others. For example, a girl is talking about "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", but you talk about "The Longing for Life", she talks about the college entrance examination, and you talk about the new coronavirus, and the two of you can't talk about it together. Naturally, this is an extremely wrong approach, and it will only make girls feel Your IQ is not online. When chasing a girl, a boy should avoid the phenomenon of talking about him left and right.
Should you fight for pictures during awkward chats
Some boys, as soon as they add a girl, they just The emoticon package turns on the picture fighting mode. Some boys are indifferent when girls compete for pictures or find that they have no emoticons. Whether you should fight for pictures during an awkward chat actually depends on the context and atmosphere. For example, if you are talking about light-hearted things, of course you can fight for pictures, but if you are talking about a heavy and sad public opinion incident, you must not send emoticons. You should also pay attention to your chatting skills even when chatting awkwardly.
How to develop an awkward chat into a hot chat
Awkward chatting is normal. If you keep chatting awkwardly, you are not in love. In future chats, in this case there is mostly no need to continue chatting. When chatting with girls, in order to increase the goodwill, trust, and emotional distance between the two of you, if it never improves, you just don’t know how to develop an awkward chat into a hot chat. During the chat, record the events and items the girl has said, summarize her speaking habits and entry points, and understand her usual personality traits and living habits. Only then will the awkward chat naturally develop into a hot chat. In short, this is Get to know each other.
