When you have just met a girl, chatting is very important, because it is related to the other person’s first impression of you. After all, only a good first impression can make the other person have the desire to continue to get to know you. So how can you quickly get closer to a girl you just met while chatting with her?
1. Chatting skills with girls you just met
Chatting with girls you just met, Qian Don't send messages too frequently. Because the girl you just met is not very familiar with her, it is already good to be added as a friend, so you have to be knowledgeable and not chat with her too frequently. Try to get to know the girl first through friends circle and other methods.
Select the chat time based on the other party’s circle of friends. Only by chatting with girls when the other party is free can you get a reply. After all, girls don’t like to be interrupted when they are at work or doing things. So how do you know when the other party is free? First, from 8 pm to 11 pm First, this time period is when women are more free; secondly, according to the time when girls post in Moments, girls will definitely retouch pictures when uploading pictures in Moments. You can also chat with girls during this time period.
How long should we chat each time? When chatting with a girl you just met, pay attention to the chatting time and don't chat too long. That will make you lose the sense of mystery in front of the girl and she will have no desire to explore you; end the chat proactively before the break time. This is Be attentive; when you don’t know what to send, you should end the topic in time and don’t let your chat be at a loss for words.
Chat topics. Of course, when chatting with girls, you should choose topics that girls are more interested in and know more about. Don’t let the chat become one person talking. We can choose topics based on the other party’s circle of friends. For example, if a girl has a pet, you can talk about your family. How well-behaved your pets are, girls usually talk about their pets.
2. Taboos when chatting with girls you just met
1. Don’t ask girls questions continuously h3>
As soon as I added a girl as a friend, I couldn’t help but ask questions. I wanted to open up the girl’s heart and take a look. I can’t say that asking questions is wrong, but asking questions all the time will make the girl feel like she is being interrogated. , and the question itself is relatively monotonous and boring. It is difficult to arouse girls' emotions, making people feel boring and uninteresting, and it is difficult to continue chatting.
2. Too many high-value displays
In front of the opposite sex you like, you will inevitably have the urge to express yourself. This is nature, but if you don’t grasp this properly, If you show your high value to girls too early and too early, in the eyes of girls, it will be just showing off and regarded as low-value behavior.
