If you just chat with a girl briefly and then want to ask her out, this is of course impossible. After all, girls have a strong sense of security. Until she doesn’t understand and trust you, she will not accept your invitation. Will agree. So how far should you go to chat with a girl before asking her out? If the following conditions are met, a girl will generally not refuse when you ask her out.
To what extent should you chat with a girl before asking her out?
1. You must first understand each other with the girl
When chatting with a girl, be natural and sincere. For example, get to know the other person’s basic information: name, age, job, etc. In the early stages of chatting with girls, you must stop talking. Talking too much will inevitably reveal that damn tenderness (sense of need).
When chatting after this, you should focus on describing your feelings and thoughts, such as:
That Xiaowang is really cute;
I feel you It may have been chubby when you were a child;
If at this stage, if the girl responds with corresponding emotions, then the chat is considered harmonious and you can try to invite someone.
2. After getting to know a girl, you can invite her out
In this fast-paced era, chatting has It's really very simple. Sometimes you just add the other party's WeChat or any other contact information, and it may only take a few words to reach the level of invitation.
The two most basic steps for an invitation are:
1. Understand each other’s personal information
Personal information includes the girl’s name, occupation, age, Hobbies and other personal information. What’s interesting is that in the eyes of social experts, understanding each other’s information is not something that must be done, but for most people, it is necessary to understand some information about each other.
Of course you also have to share your personal image with girls, which can at least increase mutual trust and familiarity. Make invitations more convenient.
2. Simple emotional communication
After understanding each other’s personal information, the next step should be All it does is a simple exchange of emotions. Why is it necessary to communicate emotions? Because only when you have some emotional collision with the other person can you distinguish the relationship from ordinary friends. Or use emotional communication to quickly break the ice and break down the barriers for further deepening of the relationship. For example, there are some ways of communicating emotions like this:
I feel that you are more emotional in person than in the photos;
Our little flower can walk on two legs;
It turns out that you are a zodiac sign and I am a zodiac sign. I read research and said that our matching degree is 95%, hahaha.
Generally speaking, when we meet girls and invite them toAbout, you only need to do the above two steps. This may seem simple, but sometimes it may take you a long time to advance a relationship.
Distinguish the difference between social experts and ordinary people. It just depends on how long it takes you to build a sense of familiarity with a girl and reach a point where you can invite her to meet.
Many times you have been chatting for a month, two months, or even half a year, and you are still unable to make an effective invitation. This is usually the most dangerous time, because you have also paid a huge time cost. And you'll probably get nothing in the end.
