Most boys are always not happy when chatting with girls on WeChat. It’s hard to make girls feel good about each other. If they can’t chat for a few words, they can’t find the topic and the conversation becomes awkward. So how can they be happy on WeChat? How about chatting with girls? Here are 3 tips:
1. Take advantage of fate
How to quickly make a girl like you on WeChat? It’s actually very simple. You just need to make her feel that she is destined to you.
If you want the other person to be predestined with you, there are three key points:
The first point: You must have a common interest, and this common interest is best "collision" .
It means that we can first find out what kind of hobbies a girl may have through the dynamics of her circle of friends or during chatting.
Then we inadvertently revealed that we are good friends, and fate came;
Second point: Everyone has relatively popular hobbies, such as pets and travel. , food; there will also be relatively niche hobbies, such as Junji Ito comics and vaporwave music.
Popular hobbies are suitable for chatting with girls in the early stages of dating, and you can basically not go wrong.
As we get to know the girls more deeply, talking about niche hobbies will make the girls feel that they are "common" with you;
The third point: applies to real relationships: when you are a girl I have some preliminary impressions of you, including who you are, how old you are, and what you do.
Although "accidental encounter" is cliché, it still works. Make more presence in girls' lives, and the relationship will heat up with each passing day.
2. Praise
No girl will refuse to praise the other party. There are also three key points in praising the other party:
p>The first point: All compliments, compliments and rainbow farts must follow "specific principles", otherwise it is easy for the other party to feel that you are perfunctory to her.
That is to say, if we praise a girl as "beautiful", we should not only say "what is beautiful", but also the specific "how to be beautiful".
Remember this formula: praise your appearance down to your body parts, praise your clothes down to your attire, praise your character down to the event, in short, it must be specific;
The second point: Others praise clearly If we say what we said as a girl again, the effect will be compromised.
For example, if the girl you like is very beautiful, many people must have praised her for her beauty, right? There is no need to follow her and praise her for her beauty.
You can focus on observing her personality and temperament. Even if you say "I feel particularly good when I get along with you", it will be more effective than praising her for being beautiful;
The third point: In fact In most cases, girls know her better than we doWhether you are right or not, she knows that she is beautiful and that her clothes are good. Based on this idea, you can also praise her for some characteristics that she has not even noticed.
For example, when a friend asked a girl to have dinner, he accidentally discovered that the girl’s hands were beautiful, slender and white.
3. Misinterpretation
The first two tricks are to make friends follow the girl's chat rhythm. But if we really can’t relate to what the girl is talking about, we can also try to change the topic and bring the girl to our own rhythm of chatting.
That is, the chatting method of misinterpretation + repeating the keyword at the end. Using this method, you can chat with girls forever.
For example, when a girl says something you don’t understand:
Female: Have you watched the recently popular "Youth Without You"?
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Male: Ah? What beauty?
Female: It’s not a beauty, it’s "Youth Without You"
Male: Ah, I don’t watch "Youth Without You". I like "With You for the Rest of My Life".
Using this method, you can keep chatting with girls without being embarrassed.
