When chatting with girls, if you don’t know some communication skills, you will find it difficult to continue chatting with girls, or even girls will not want to chat with you or refuse to chat with you. Therefore, it is particularly important to master communication skills and the correct way to communicate with girls, so that girls are willing to continue chatting and communicating with you!
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1. Skills in communicating with girls
1. Don’t check household registration
Some straight men will ask you as soon as they come up - What is your name? How old are you? ?How many boyfriends have you had? Are you a virgin...
In short, it’s a long list. Ask girls directly if they don’t want to reply to you. This way of communicating to check household registration is very easy. Being disliked.
Because this will give girls the feeling that the teacher is asking their classmates to answer questions in class, which will cause inexplicable pressure. Besides, you are not familiar with each other at all. It is too intrusive on a girl’s privacy to ask questions as soon as you get here.
2. Don’t ask and answer questions
Because some boys don’t know how to chat, they mechanically apply some chat techniques for asking questions.
Then the content of his chat with the girl turned into a question-and-answer talk show, Trust Me. No girl would like this kind of chat.
3. Don’t be too entangled
Sometimes, when you just add a girl, you may not really have any good topics to talk about, and you can end the conversation by just saying a few words.
However, some impatient boys have never lacked the confidence to chat awkwardly. They insist on chatting with girls, looking for trouble and talking nonsense. This kind of entangled chat experience is also what girls want. Distasteful.
2. The correct way to communicate with girls
1. Use "want" instead of "need"< /h3>
When you need a girl, use "want" instead of "need" in your words. Need means that you are passively helping and showing weakness. This is not appropriate in the establishment of a relationship between men and women. Change it. Words would be better.
2. Avoid too naive questions
When you date a girl - can I date you for dinner on the weekend? (If you have time on the weekend, let’s have a meal together! ) Before you kiss a girl - can I kiss you? (If the atmosphere is suitable, just kiss directly)
This kind of childish question shows that you lack masculinity. Therefore, when getting along with girls, don't ask low-meaning questions, as this will make girls less interested in you.
3. Speak with emphasish3>
Some boys start flirting with girls by saying - are you there? What are you doing? Are you busy? After chatting for a long time, they finally say what they really want to say.
This kind of communication experience will make girls think that you are a sloppy person who talks without focus, is not crisp, and contains too much meaningless nonsense.
4. True self-confidence
Am I good at playing?
Am I good at XXX?
Boys who lack self-confidence, They like to gain recognition from girls in this way and express their attraction. However, when girls don't play according to the routine - they are too weak, incompetent, so-so... they wilt.
True self-confidence does not need to ask girls to gain approval, nor does it care about others' disapproval. It is the confidence that radiates from the inside out.
5. Don’t show off yourself
Showing off yourself in front of girls is actually a very low-level behavior. This will not attract girls, but will only cause them to dislike you.
When getting along with girls, don’t show off yourself. People who are truly of high value will not show off their high value by showing off.
