Many straight men don’t know what to talk about when they chat with the girl they like. They always feel very embarrassed. The chat ends up being awkward, and either ends up checking the household registration, or it just doesn’t end... It is said that "everything is difficult at the beginning", how do you find a girl to chat with in the beginning? How do you start chatting with a girl?
How do you find a girl in the beginning? Girls Chat
Many boys always don’t know what to talk about in front of the girl they like. The fundamental reason is - you care too much about what this girl thinks of you, and you become very attentive in front of this girl. You always think about how to perform your best in every word and deed you do, which results in self-restraint and becoming coy!
When you are dominated by this kind of thought (what girls will think) , you have lost your best condition, because you have given the girl the right to decide your mood. A boy who is manipulated by girls is definitely not a boy who attracts girls!
If you are dating a girl because of this If you feel nervous while chatting, then a girl’s sixth sense will definitely capture your emotions. This is their talent. If she realizes this, she will start to give you a failing grade in her heart.
Therefore, when you start chatting with a girl, you must first get rid of your nervousness, use a confident and natural attitude to talk to the girl about the things she is interested in, and at the same time express your own opinions. When the girl slowly develops feelings for you, When you are interested, talk more about yourself.
How to start chatting with girls
1. Start with emoticons
Now In the Internet age, most of the time, chatting with girls is done on chat software such as WeChat, and emoticons can be used as the beginning of a chat to enliven the atmosphere. If a girl is willing to reply to you, that is a good start.
2. Show attraction at the beginning
Attraction is a manifestation of value. If you have money, then buy gifts for girls and take girls on dates in various places...
If you are very good at cooking (speciality), then talk to the girl about food, ask her what she likes to eat, and then find an opportunity to cook for her when the relationship gets closer.
Showing your attractiveness to girls is a very good start. This can make girls take the initiative to pay attention to you and get to know you.
3. Stimulate curiosity
Girls: I’m so tired at work~ [It’s a difficult sentence to answer. , usually boys will comfort you with a few words of comfort, say something about taking a good rest, and then end the topic]
At this time, when chatting with a girl, you need to stimulate her curiosity so that you can extend your chat. For example, grasping one of the levelsKeywords - work, tired.
Boy: Really? It seems like I didn’t go to work. /Then what do you think you do without getting tired? (Talk about ways to rest)
At this time, girls will be aroused curiosity - why are you not tired at work? /What kind of rest do you like...</ p>
4. Find topic points
Usually a girl’s personality, preferences, and interests will be found in her circle of friends, avatar, nickname, signature, way of speaking, conversation details... Show it, which requires you to observe carefully, then find the topics that interest her, and continue chatting with her.
