Girls all hope to find a reliable partner, so when choosing a mate, they often choose boys who are older than themselves. So if the girl I am chasing says that I am too young to be suitable, how should I respond to her?
1. Analyze the reasons why girls do not look for younger boys
Some girls may have been with older girls before She was hurt during the relationship with her brother, because he was immature or irrational, which made her feel repelled by boys younger than her.
Some girls have never had a sibling relationship before, but because they themselves are not very mature, they want to find a boy who is older than them as their boyfriend, because they feel more secure.
Some girls are influenced by traditional concepts and think that when a boy falls in love, the boy should be older and the girl should be smaller. This is a better match. Moreover, they are very concerned about the opinions of others and feel that the relationship between siblings is not acceptable.
Girls have no feelings for you, they just use your young age as an excuse to reject your pursuit.
2. What should I do if a girl says I am too young?
In fact, it doesn’t matter if a girl says you are too young. What is the reason? What you need to do may be to change the girl's inherent impression of you and let her see your shining points, so that she may accept you. The specific method is as follows:
Find her first and say to her sincerely: "It is true that I am young, and this is a fact that cannot be changed, but I want to ask you, have you been in love several times before, and are you with those boys who are older than you? Why did you break up? Or can you guarantee that you will end up with a boy who is older than you? I don't want to ridicule you, I just hope you won't rush to reject me because of your age. How about giving each other a chance?"
Although these words may seem a bit harsh, they can actually touch the hearts of girls. Next, don't rush to ask her to give you an answer, let her think about it. And in the meantime. You can find ways to be nice to her and use practical actions to impress her (avoid any childish behavior that will make her shrink from you again). Your words and actions make her have the urge to give you a chance. As for whether she will accept you, it depends on your performance.
The reason why girls are unwilling to accept younger boys is actually out of a sense of security. On the one hand, she is older than you and may have to endure more; on the other hand, she will bear pressure from society and family; finally, she will worry that you are immature and will cause many conflicts in your future life. If a girl who is chasing a girl says that I am too young, the best way for you to convince her is to eliminate all of her worries, so that she has nothing to worry about.
