Many people tend to get nervous when they meet the person they like due to their lack of love experience. Even if they prepare a lot of topics, they find that the conversation is still quiet and there is no topic. What should we do in this situation?< br/>
1. Chat logic should not be too strong
If you want to have constant topics in chat, Then you should not be too rational when chatting, but should chat with perceptual thinking.
However, many people like to use linear thinking when chatting with people they like, which leads to a chat that is too logical and lacks interaction, making it easy for the conversation to become cold.
For example, you can think about what it is like for children in kindergarten to chat? Why do they have topics to talk about at any time?
It’s because they don’t have what we call Logical and rational, using emotions to drive the atmosphere of the chat, naturally there will rarely be no topics in the chat.
2. Don’t check your household registration
Many people tend to ask questions in order to find topics when there is no topic, and then it turns into a household check-style chat. You must know that this is a taboo in chatting. Although such chatting may seem to have a topic, it will only make the person you like think that you have nothing to say.
So, when you have no topic and want to find a topic by asking questions, you might as well consider turning all the questions you want to ask into declarative sentences, such as (I think you were born in November 1992! ) She must be curious about why you said that, and then you can continue the conversation with this foundation. You can definitely know what you want you to know.
3. Don’t be too formal when chatting
When chatting with someone you like, because of nervousness, just It’s easy to make a chat too formal. This leads to people not daring to joke during chats and always maintaining a polite attitude. Such chats also fall into the category of rational chats.
And if you chat with the person you like in a more formal way, the other person’s reply will naturally be more formal. In such a boring chat atmosphere, it is easy to run out of topics.
Therefore, if you want to avoid chatting without topics, don’t be too formal when chatting. Make jokes when you need to, and tease the other person when you need to. Only in this way will there be a better chatting atmosphere. There will be no running out of topics.
4. Stop when things are good.
You must know how to stop when things are good. Chat with a girl and let her mood reach the highest point. Then take the initiative to withdraw, the reason can be, I am in a meeting now, I will talk to you later. I'm busy now. I'll follow you later.You say oh. Or just ignore her. Why is this? You must have all experienced the feeling when a girl suddenly disappears while chatting happily?
Women are human beings too. (And pursuing victory has harmed many people. Combining the above misunderstandings, you will definitely know what to do).
Finally, let me tell you that chatting is not about defusing bombs. Chat casually. Don’t treat chatting like a battlefield. The purpose of chatting is that both parties can talk happily. Love should be beautiful and relaxed. .
