One of the biggest headaches for boys is how to start a chat with a girl they have just met and how to have a good chat. Today I will give you an analysis of what you should pay attention to when chatting with a girl you just met.
1. Don’t be glib
It’s true that girls like sweet words, but they must be divided Who says, which period should be divided. I just met you once, but you used sweet words to talk to her. Even a good girl would doubt you: How many times have you said this? It always makes people feel unreliable. So, you don’t need to flatter that girl with sweet words, just say hello and tell her to take care of yourself every day, that’s all.
2. Don’t be impatient
If you want a girl to be with you, you need to follow the correct relationship warming process, and don’t be too impatient. An impatient man will make women feel horny and unattractive, thus scaring away girls. You need to master the correct heating process and warm up the relationship with girls step by step.
3. Don’t send messages too frequently
The girls you just met are not very familiar with each other. It’s already good to have good friends, so we have to be aware of their interests, not chat with each other too frequently, and try to get to know the girls first through friends circles and other methods.
4. End the topic promptly
Even if you like another girl, you must remember that a girl does not necessarily fall in love with you at first sight like you like her. If she doesn't belong to you, she will have her own life and her own social circle. She may not be willing to spend a lot of time chatting with you. Therefore, when you find that a girl responds to your message like this "Hmm", or "Hehe", or "That's right". At this time, you can tell the girl to take a break if she is tired, or other warm farewell words, otherwise the girl will be very disgusted with you.
This is a common "mistake" made by boys and girls who have just fallen in love. In fact, it can't be considered a mistake, because it is a very sincere symbol, but there are also many boys and girls who have just started to have some feelings, but they terminate all contact because of their unrestrained words. Love needs sincerity and sincerity, but it cannot be so transparent and thorough. For example, young couples who have just had feelings for each other often ask questions about how many times you have been in love. Regarding this question, you cannot lie, but you cannot tell it in such detail. If you think it is too detailed, the other party will feel it. You are sincere, but at the same time you feel awkward in your heart, so there are some things you should not say casually.
5. Find a good time to chat
Only when the other party is free can you chat with the girl.You may get a reply. After all, girls don’t like to be disturbed when they are working or doing things. So how do you know when the other person is free? First, from 8 pm to 11 pm, this time period is when women are more free. Second, according to the time when girls post in Moments, girls will definitely retouch pictures before uploading them in Moments. You can also chat with girls during this time.
6. Don’t chat for too long
When chatting with a girl you just met, pay attention to the chatting time. Don't chat for too long, as that will make you lose your sense of mystery in front of the girl, and she will have no desire to explore you; end the chat before the break time, which is a sign of attentiveness; when you don't know what to send When talking, you should also end the topic in time, so as not to leave you speechless during the chat.
